Everyone makes out with self-talk at a quiet time and place.
Sometimes, your past failure leaves a bad message in your heart; that nothing good will be done by you. You don't have to accept defeat by thinking that you're likely to fail with every bit of step you'll take.
To get rid of this bad impression, you have to focus on the future possibilities by turning failures into opportunities and consider your successes in the past.
New opportunities both in learning improves one's courage and confidence as a model will be provided from the potential successes leading to numerous goals.
Remove the talk from your head such as “Monday is a hectic day”, “This is one of the things I can't stand;” and “Raining season sucks.” These are languages that sends a wrong signal that nothing successful will be recorded in your name.
These languages keep you in a rigid bondage.
Moreover, some people are in Love with the season of rainy days and embrace whatever they do to be productive within the periods. This practically means that both dry and rainy days are natural, neutral and are valuable no matter what.
You need to assign value to every situation and proceedings in life. Don't let bad adventures and experiences weigh you down from the future plans of achieving greater heights.
Negative self-messages can be turned to values when you find something difficult, all you need to do is to strategize the possible steps in which you can turn them to something you can put up with.
Always be free to assign values that gives you a good thought and sound physical attitude towards every aspect of human experiences.
Rise above every negativity. Don't worsen your problems. You can act against your self-interest when you're upset but definitely this will yield negative results.
Let the picture seen from past “mistakes” represent the feedbacks and languages that will lead to achieving something great.
Consequently, a chance to do things which you will be proud of will be established and achieved.
If you always think about your past mistakes as failures, you're definitely depriving yourself the potential opportunities to act and actualize something good in the present _ the chance turn your goals to values.
Imagine the successes ahead of you because the future is bigger unlike the past. Don't blame, suffer or complain rather react differently to achieve greatness by taking more of actions.
Reminisce in a quiet place
The humor in the past situation can be seen as alternative approaches which could divert the negative feelings and get rid of the fear you have over trying something new.
Learning something new erases negative-messages which could lead to making future organized action plans as the past failure was unable to unleash freedom of choice.
To make it better, Monday shouldn't be referred to as hectic day but adapted to with a system of getting up and ready at the early morning to start up a good day.
Consider your environment at every given point in term as a growth environment. This will remind you that mistakes is certain and are needed to make things better.
The past cannot be compared to the future because the future is bigger with a message that what you saw as a mistake in the past is simply the price you paid for future success.
Don't focus on the negative impressions of the past rather do something new to make things better.
You don't need to complain because the “valley stage” or the “hard part” is over. Use whatever you've learned from your “mistake” to achieve success in the future.
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In subsequent times, learn how to change the negative messages of the past into descriptions of what you're facing in order to be all that you can be.
Always keep in mind the things you are good at.
Translate negative outcomes as courageous feedback or price paid for success.
Your focus and strength on what you are capable of doing should be built on a strong hold. Put away wishful thoughts and getting upset because they offer nothingness to man but regrets.
Always think about the good things which you have done and dwell on the good side of life.
Let this serve as a model for your future action.
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