When people get married, they're getting a lifetime partner, a friend, a spouse, a helpmate who is supposed to support them through life and show up for them when difficulties arise.
Although we have come to known getting married as the process or method of living with someone you love to procreate, aside from procreation being married to someone entails a lot of other things that are capable of making the marriage work. I have heard one of my cousin brothers severally mention that he is searching for a helpmate and not just someone to procreate with him, according to him procreating is not just enough, Love is not enough except for understanding.
When couples understand each other, things go smoothly and it would be hard for someone to ever hear them disagreeing with each other or fight over minor things.
Based on understanding in marriages and relationships, a particular lady has caught the attention of several people after she revealed what she did for her husband money-wise, and this has made people praise her and pray for the success of her home.
According to the beautiful lady, after she received her monthly salary, she immediately met her husband and asked him how much he needed her to contribute to the welfare of the family. Her husband who felt she was joking carefreely mentioned an amount and she transferred it to his bank account, leaving her husband bewildered and speechless.
After that, she proceeds to pay her Children's home teachers from what was remaining of her salary, making her husband feel more surprised. Her deed wasn't what touched me, rather her acknowledgment that her husband struggles when the financial burden becomes too heavy without bothering her, this was her way of helping him although it isn't up to what her husband contributes.
She goes ahead to add that her husband didn't marry a responsibility but a helper. To show appreciation, her darling husband went to the market and stocked up the home, prepared a nice meal, and served her.
Her revelations caused so many reactions online and people kept praising her for being so thoughtful. In any form of union, the key ingredient is understanding your partner, it makes everything work like magic.
Below are some comments from people concerning what she did for her husband:
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