Being Married Does Not Distract You From Other Ladies or Women – Apostle Selman
It does not matter whether you are married or not, you will always have to deal with other women, marriage only reduces how often or to the extend with which you get distracted by other women or ladies in your circle.
Apostle Joshua Selman, an apostle with millions of followers all over the world speaks on how he deals with women, even though he is not married, the distractions and how he manages to cope with all of that. His response to the question from an interview with PD was shocking.
Many, even the interviewer and the congregation were surprised when he said, “being married does not stop you from being distracted by other women or ladies in your circle, all it does is reduce the level or extend to which you get distracted by other women or ladies”.
Apostle Selman stated that he believes that, “I think the issue of ladies and sisters is not limited to whether you are married or not, it is only minimized when you are married, and that is what I believe and anybody who would be very honest”.
He further said that, the key to being able to manage yourself in the company of sisters and ladies when you are not married is values and principles, being able to put values because many people who have had problem with sisters, either know so much about them that when they falter, they do not have the mind to caution them.
That is where so much pity and compassion sets in, because you are emotionally connected to her, you do not want to hurt her, so as a guy, if she makes a wrong move towards you, you may not be able to stop or caution her.
In the interview, Joshua Selman told viewers that, as a human, it does not matter the kind of grace you are operating on, when you go to God in prayers, you go all in, you do not take some and keep some things outside God.
He concluded by stating that, being a visionary person is also a great way to help keep yourself in check, whether married or not, when you are busy and not idle, you will be far from Sodom (that is destruction of lust).
He said that is how he survives with all the ladies and sisters in his ministry, even as a single young minister.
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