When someone is talking to you, and they are lying, something inside you will tell you that what they are saying is not true.
You may have caught some people who told you big lies and small lies. Some of them tell lies without knowing they are lying.
Some people lie habitually and can't control it because they do it unconsciously, while some need to rehearse before lying.
It will be a big lie if someone tells you that they have never lied before.
Many of us have lied before, and we understand it is difficult to cope with someone who perpetually lies.
Someone who lies by mistake is not the same as someone who perpetually lies. A habitual liar usually lies about irrelevant things.
He or she does it to earn prestige from people they are lying to, and they become an expert in it over time.
When someone is lying to you, don't let what they say confuse you, and don't believe anything they say.
Try to watch if their words correspond with their actions before you believe them.
You might find it difficult to trust them or establish a good relationship with them, but don't let it upset you.
Many of them are not aware that they are lying, so don't take things personally.
Don't criticize them, let him or her understand that you care about them.
You might want the truth from the person and want to confront them. However, bear in mind that they will cover the lie with another lie.
Don't get angry with them. Just keep observing their behavior. Their actions will reveal the truth.
You need to put a boundary on your interactions with them to protect yourself until the person changes.
The feeling of being deceived can affect you mentally.
You might need to stay away from the person to avoid being deceived and to protect your health emotionally.
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