Every lady desires to get married. The male folks usually do the finding while the female folks do the positioning. Sometimes, Christian sisters run into confusion about if a Christian brother is truly interested in getting married to them or is just being friendly.
This has led to the heartbreak of some sisters as they get disappointed when a Christian brother they thought wanted to marry them eventually marries someone else.
In this article, Pst. Mrs. Faith Oyedepo gives a teaching that aids in solving this problem.
In one of her teachings, she said,
Before I met my husband and the issue of marriage came up, there were a lot of different brothers who had spoken and proposed to me about marriage, however I say thanks to God for He gave me the understanding and the grace to enjoy His presence so God gave me the grace to know when to say yes and when to say no. I treated every one of those men with respect and honour and one thing I never did was to waste their time.
Once they spoke, I gently told them, "thanks very much brother, I don't think so, God enable you and lead you to the right direction."
Sisters, kindly don't waste a brother's time. Somebody addressed you about marriage and you are sure your answer is no, don't say later, I am coming when really you are going.
Likewise brothers, if you need to request her hand in marriage, don't keep delaying her for God's sake, don't continue to visit, when you are sure you have something to say, please say it.
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