God blesses our marriages by bestowing children onto us. We also have to make sure that our kids are raised right. A child who has been raised properly by his or her parents will eventually bring harmony to both the parents and the community. Children pick things up rapidly, so you need to watch out for them and make sure they're shielded from anything that can harm them. Rather than just sending them to school, we ought to endeavor to serve as their teacher at home. Try one of the following techniques to get your kids to listen to you and behave properly in public if you notice them acting in ways you don't like.
Here are some suggestions for how to correct children who are misbehaving and encourage them to obey you once more.
1. Check the type of movies he/she enjoys.
Children and their parents watch adult movies together in several homes today. Humans pick things up from what they hear and see. If you allow this to take place in your household, your kids can start acting in ways that you don't enjoy. As long as they are living under your roof, help your kids develop their minds. Get them movies with edited moral instruction and education.
2. Check his/her friends
No child ever picks up a habit out of nowhere; it must have been taught to them. If your child has begun school, you may need to visit the establishment and request that he or she be transferred from the group with which they are typically sitting. If your child is in higher elementary or secondary school, you should also keep an eye on the kind of friends that he or she makes. If they are not the kind of people you want your children to move with, keep them far from your kids.
2. Be mindful of your behavior around your kids.
Until you change, your children may not. Don't accuse anybody. Alter your behavior before they alter theirs. You should anticipate your kids lying to you one day if you lie to your husband/wife in front of them since they watch you and pick up on it. If you act properly in front of them, they will pay attention to what you have to say.
3. Do more talking than punishment
It might not be a good idea to grab a cane and slap your kid every time he or she does anything wrong. Before you can influence someone, you must first alter their perspective. Work to improve your child's cognitive ability. Boost the volume of your speech. Even if you want to use a cane, you need to tell the child that what he did was wrong before you do anything else.
4. Dedicate time for them
The best way to change your children's lives is to invest quality time in them. When you have time to stay with them, you will be able to spot and correct any negative traits. You can develop strong bonds with them and win their trust by spending time with them. They won't be able to prevent anything from coming near you as a result. However, if you don't have time for them, they'll look for advice elsewhere, and if they're misinformed, it will be challenging to change their minds.
5. Pray for them
There may come a time in your family's life when you realize you've done everything conceivable to discipline your kids but nothing has seemed to work. At this point, begin to pray. Don't give up on them; instead, seek spiritual guidance.
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