While it is important to be open-minded in a relationship with a man, it is important to keep a certain level of privacy in order to win his respect and love.
Many relationships have ended in the last few years as a result of information that should have been kept hidden until the right time. Some guys lack the mental capacity to deal with sensitive information about their women.
Once they hear something from her that they didn't expect, the lady becomes unmarryable to them, and they stop the relationship on the basis of false justifications.
No matter how much you love a guy, don't reveal these three details about yourself unless you're very certain that the two of you are going somewhere and that your hearts are beating together.
1. Don't be in a rush to tell others about your family's problems. When most guys learn that their partners come from a rough and tough past, they become easily disheartened. No man wants to be burdened with additional responsibilities. Once they become aware, they may attempt to avoid it at all costs, putting the relationship in jeopardy.
This does not imply that you should live a lie. All you have to do is be genuine and lead a normal life. Allow things to follow their natural course and, just in time, the situation will resolve itself, and he will have no choice but to accept you as you are.
2. No matter how much you love a guy, don't rush to tell him about your past mistakes. This has to do with sensitive errors that can irritate him and prevent him from moving further in the relationship.
For example, if you have ever been abused by a man, had a pregnancy aborted, or jilted an ex-boyfriend, you may risk losing your current boyfriend if you inform him about all of these things too soon. You'll come out as careless and untrustworthy to him.
3. Another thing you shouldn't divulge to your partner right away is the trait that drew him to you in the first place. This conversation can be postponed until your wedding night.
Guys are inherently proud, and when you tell them, they will consider you fortunate to have them in your life. Normally, a man should consider himself fortunate to have a good woman in his life. If it's the other way around, the chances of bringing the relationship to a fruitful conclusion are slim.
So don't be in a rush to reveal all of these details in order to avoid losing the ideal man in your life.
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