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My Life Never Remained The Same Once I Learnt How To Spot These Signs.

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For a couple of articles now, we have been discussing red flags you should not ignore on your first dates.


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Today, I want to share some signs I ignored on first dates that changed my life emotionally.

 

Have you ever been on a date but somehow you focus on his or her looks or the restaurant view or your meal or your just punch the keys on your phone?


Well, we have all been in such situations, but that is wrong because when we go on a date, we ought to learn about the other person not exploit. 


If you do that then, please follow us because we are bringing an article on your kind of character; the emotional exploiter or you can read a compelling and comprehensive article about emotional exploitation on our other blog @ Life_Hive.


Signs you should look out for on your first date are as follows;


HE TRIES TO TAKE A SELFIE THE FIRST TIME THEY SEE YOU;


Confidence and friendliness are attractive, but if your date is acting too familiar with your roommate who answered the door, wants to talk to your mom when she calls through or is immediately adding you to social networks and wanting to take a selfie, then you might be facing a glaring red flag around their ability to understand social norms and boundaries. Your date may be a narcissist and that is the one thing you want to run from.


Want to know who a narcissist is and how to spot one? Please tell me in the comments, and I will bring a comprehensive series about narcissism.


HE BRINGS UP EMOTIONAL WOUNDS FROM CHILDHOOD ON THE FIRST DATE;


The first date should be about the chill, casual courting. If things move too personal and deep too fast, this could mean that trauma from childhood was not left in childhood but is still haunting the individual in their present. The inability to process emotions and deal with them in the past can lead to problems in their adult life.


Sometimes this person can share remarkably emotional stories solely to buy your empathy and sympathy.


Dear reader because this person might be a sociopath or suffering from post-traumatic syndrome; a mental disorder.


Want to know who a sociopath is and how to spot one? Please tell me in the comments, and I will bring a comprehensive series.


Check out our blog @Chopings to read about the post-traumatic syndrome.


HE IS THE ONLY ONE ASKING QUESTIONS BUT NOT ANSWERING ANY;


If they reveal little to no information about themselves, even when you inquire, they could be studying you in a particular manner.


Please, we came to know about each other on this date not for you to take me as a lab-rat and observe or scrutinize me!


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Alright lovelies, its time to go, but I will be back soon, see ya!


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