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How To Approach A Girl Of Your Choice

Learning how to approach women is a process every man has been through. It's perhaps the first key step in figuring out how to get a girlfriend.

You’ve seen this girl a couple of times around the vicinity. You are desperate to have her as your girlfriend because she is pretty, sexy, curvy, and all that.

But you are confused. You don’t know what to do. Maybe, all the attempts you’ve made to get a girl was not successful.

In this article, we would take a look at how to approach ladies and make a great impression.

Here are five simple steps to teach you how to approach girls

1. Have eye contact with her:

When the girl is aware of your presence, it is time to play the staring game, stare at her now and then to arouse her curiosity, if she glances at you back smiling to herself, then you’re good to go but if she stares at you back with a dirty kind of looks, there is no point approaching her because most often such scenario ends up in disaster, just avoid her.

2. Plan the first phrase:

Just think in advance what you will say to her, after the word "hello". This gives confidence that you have everything under control. It's better not to use templates but to improvise. Don't try to invent anything too convincing, it's obvious when someone is trying too hard.

3. Don’t mind first impressions –just be consistent:

It’s okay if you did not appear impressive the first time you met. Just prove to her that you have a lot more to offer. However, beware of pretending to be something you’re not.

Again, just be yourself because everything likable and lovable about you will just reveal itself without you forcing it out for everyone to see.

4. Know how to keep the conversation lively:

You need to be confident around her and know how to have a fruitful conversation. You can do this by adding in some compliments for the girl, and helping her feel more relaxed by making her laugh.

4. Speak your mind and show interest:

Don’t let shyness stop you from saying what is in your heart. Do you love the girl? If you do, let her know and don’t be late about it.

There is every chance that she will turn down your request the first time but if you keep showing your interest in her, she would see how serious and committed you are and probably give in.

5. Show that you are harmless:

Women’s brains are programmed to read men’s body language. From the moment you approach them, their subconscious is analyzing the way you hold your body and your every move, to decide how they feel about you.

The key is using body language that shows you are friendly.

6. Ask for a way to reach out to her:

If she seems as though she’s interested in you, the conversation will likely progress well. Take advantage of the ssituationn by asking if it would be okay for you to call her or add her on social media.

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