In this month of love and romance, it won't hurt to know when someone that is around you is showing romantic interest in you especially with Valentine's day incoming 😁. Some people are blind to obvious signs that someone around is feeling them or is checking them out and they end up missing the opportunity.
When A Girl Is Checking You Out
DISCLAIMER: This post is for us single guys, the rest of you that are in relationships should go and meet your woman 😒.
Sometimes when you are at events or any public place, you may fail to notice signs that show someone around you is interested or is checking you out. Another instance is when you like someone that is around you but you don't know whether she is interested (because you failed to pick up her signs) and thus you become afraid to "shoot your shot".
As a guy, these are the signs that girls show when they are checking you out in a public place:
#1• Eye contact
Eye contact is one of the love languages that girls like to use especially when they are not so familiar with you. There are a lot of ways that eye contact can give her away.
For example, when your eyes meet her's more than once or twice, it is obvious that one of you has an agenda and you know it's not you😁. Another thing girls love to do is that they lock eye contact with you for a few seconds just to let you know that they are interested.
Another popular example is when she removes her eyes immediately you look in her direction. This behaviour is popular among shy girls and she obviously wants to hide the fact that she is checking you out. It's hard to catch these ones but if you're a sharp guy you will surely catch her 😏.
#2• Repeated Movement
Repeated movement is a natural way that we humans expose ourselves when we are secretly monitoring or should I say "checking out" another person. It's subconscious so we won't even know when we do it. It just happens.
When a girl is checking you out, repeated movement is one way to catch her. For example, you can move your hand or turn your face to another direction and she may likely repeat this your movement. Another good way to catch her is by yawning 😁.
Yawning is a reflex action and is something that you can copy from someone without even realising it. When a girl is monitoring you, one way to catch her is by yawning. When you yawn, she may likely copy you *unconsciously* and yawn as well. If you notice this, it may likely not be a coincidence and she might just be feeling you 😏.
Smiling and blushing is the weak point of a lot of girls when they are in love and that is one thing that they cannot hide. This can happen when she is interacting with you, when she's talking to someone near you or even when she's far from you as well. It can also happen when you simply take a look at her.
If you notice that a girl is blushing when talking to you, it may just be a sign that she likes you. This blushing happens mostly because of shyness. We human beings are always shy (even if it's a little bit) around someone that we like or someone that we are attracted to. Girls express this shyness by blushing or smiling unnecessarily.
#4• She Looks Confused
This one applies mostly to girls that are trying to hide their feelings and are checking you out secretly. You may call it as part of the shyness but when a girl likes a guy, her coordination won't be complete when she's talking to him or even when she's around him. (Although it depends on the girl. There are some hard girls out there 😒).
This confusion can happen when you turn around and look in their direction (sometimes by mistake or you can even do it on purpose😉). You will find out that when you look in her direction, she becomes shaky or she becomes nervous such that she looks confused.
Another instance when this happens is when she is talking to you. Her nerves will definitely take over and she may look confused or disoriented.
As you can see, no matter how hard she tries to hide her attraction for you, some of these subconscious signs will give her away. Some girls even do these signs intentionally so that you will know how they feel.
As a guy, when you discover these signs, the ball is now in your court. I'm sure after reading this you might remember an instance in the past when a girl did all these but you just didn't realise the meaning 😅.
Also have it in mind that not all girls are the same or behave the same way and none of these signs are "full proof" so don't be surprised if things don't exactly go the way you want.
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