If you're the type of girl that go into a relationship within few days and the relationship ends, but you think that it might have something to do with your personality, then it’s easy to fix. You just need to know a little bit about male psychology and what they look for in a female.
1. Can bring the hero instinct to them
According to the hero instinct, men are driven by three basic things in life:
To live a meaningful life and feel appreciated for his effortsTo provide for those he cares about, including his family, friends and especially his romantic partnerTo be respected by those around him.
If you’ve spent any time with a man, you’ll instantly realize that this all makes a lot of sense. Men come in all shapes and sizes, but these 3 psychological urges are common to us all.
The simple truth is that your man doesn’t necessarily want to be an action hero. But he does have a biological urge to be your hero.
We all know that women are natural caretakers. Their best qualities are their loving, caring and selfless nature. Making men feel empowered to feel like a hero, therefore, should be right up your ally.
The main takeaway of the hero instinct is this: Instead of making your guy feel unessential, you need to make him feel wanted and needed.
This doesn’t mean women need to come across as weak. Although you may not need a hero, you do want a man who feels like one.
Your guy probably knows you can do most things on your own. And he probably respects you for it.
“Be more confident”
We’ve all this heard time and time again.
But the reason its such popular advice is that it actually works.
Despite what society may tell you, men actually want to be challenged. They want a female who isn’t afraid to tell it how it is and risk offending whoever comes into their path.
If you really want to get the attention of a man, be confident, and embrace who you are. You’ll instantly become more attractive. I can guarantee it.
3. Sexy femininity
Women tend to like strong, masculine men, and in the same vein, men like sexy, feminine women. But in today’s society, our definition of femininity can get a little fuzzy. Many of us misinterpret femininity as being passive and a pushover. This couldn’t be further from the truth. The fact is, despite the shift in roles between men and women, one thing remains true: The most important factor that attracts men to women is femininity.
Being feminine is all about owning your sexual power.
4. Be caring
Women are naturally more caring and empathic, so it’s time to use that to your advantage. Research has found that men find a kind, caring side as an important quality in a female. Men are attracted to a woman who is able to take care of them and look after them when sh*t hits the fan in their life. Women are great listeners, and if you can bring out the emotional and sensitive side in him by making him feel comfortable, your connection will spark like a lightning strike. But it’s not just about how you treat your man, but also how you treat his friends and family. Be nice and friendly to them, too. Men like a woman are lovely and polite to everyone they meet. It means that he’ll be happy to show you off when the time comes for it. Now if you’re on your first-date, then you need to be aware of how you come across. Some women can have that natural resting b*tch face that can turn off some men. If that’s the case, then you might want to work on smiling more. That will make you appear more open, friendly, and likable.
Make sure you listen and ask insightful connections. Once he feels comfortable, he’ll start seeing your caring side and will understand that he can trust you when he wants to release his emotions
5. Be playful and have fun
Men like a woman that is playful. There’s no doubt. Nobody wants to be with someone who is extremely serious 24/7. That can get a little tiring and uncomfortable. bring out that laid-back, playful, and fun side to you. Joke with him laugh together and get fun.
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