Before You Say Yes To That Guy Proposing, Make Sure To Ask This 5 Questions.
When we fall in love, it seems like our partner is so perfect and we just want to have them to ourselves. It beclouds our reasoning so much that we overlook their flaws and possible signs that show they will not make a good husband/wife.
It is easier to just believe what your spouse says and all their confessions of "I love you" but there are things you need to clarify before you commit your future to them.
These 5 questions are what every lady out there should ask their partners before saying yes. Guys who find themselves on this article should also read through and know what their lady is expecting from them.
1) CAN YOU BE ALL I WANT?
A Woman instinctively and naturally seeks and needs her Man to be many things.
. Her FRIEND
✔️ Her LOVER
✔️ Her GIST BUDDY
✔️ Her PRIEST
✔️ Her HUSBAND
✔️ A FATHER (to their kids)
When he fails in one of this areas, it tells on her emotionally and otherwise. While some Men only know how to be husband, but not a friend or priest. Some know how to be a lover but will leave the kids and parenting for you to face alone.
This is why you ask him questions, observe him closely and attend marriage seminars together.
2) CAN YOU HANDLE MY STRENGTHS?
You have strengths, talents, gifts, passions that God has put inside of you. Can he handle them or is he the insecure type who will want to suppress the greatness in you because you are his wife?
There are Men that will cage and limit you intentionally because they are insecure. They think allowing you chase your dreams will see you become more successful than they are.
3) CAN YOU HANDLE MY WEAKNESSES?
No body is perfect and we all have our weaknesses. Not everyone can stand us or be in our lives because of that.
If you like to talk, as in, excessively. If you forget a lot or If you snore
Marry a man who knows these about you, and doesn't care. Better would be a man who cares and is willing to patiently help you overcome them.
Use your courtship to find out how understanding he is, how tolerant he is and many more.
4) CAN YOU IMPROVE ME?
Man is the HEAD of the Home because he is to LEAD. He is the Head not just so he can be free to do as he likes in the Home. Man is HEAD because God expects him to be ahead.
He may not necessarily be better than you in all aspects, but he should be able to make you a better Woman by virtue of being married to him. You are dating somebody(even ordinary friendship) and after six months you take a look at your life in retrospect. How has that relationship improved you spiritually, mentally, socially, financially and otherwise?
Are you wiser? happier? More inspired? Are you suddenly becoming more prayerful, more confident, beautiful in and out? Or you are even now duller? Sadder? Less motivated? Less spiritual, and more in touch with carnality and sexual acts? Losing your self esteem?
Don't marry a man who has shown no capacity to add to you and help you become a better person either actively or passively. By his words and his actions you should be able to know this.
Never marry a man who is making you worse than he met you.
5) CAN YOU STAND BY ME AND STICK TO ME
Look at this Man telling you I LOVE YOU and assess him objectively. How he talks, thinks, his spiritual depth, his character.
Does he look like the faithful type that will stick to you and you alone come what may? If there is no issue/child after one year of marriage, will he stand by you? If his family or friends make trouble, will he stand up for you?
He'll see more beautiful, better endowed women everyday. Some willing to have an affair with him even if they know he's married, will he be able to turn down such temptation?
As you grow older, maybe one or two body changes occur, will he stand by you and help you overcome that? Or will he bail, abandon the home and start looking for younger girls.
Find out which that guy Is. Before you say I DO.
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