Most Christian homes today are suffering from one marriage problem to the other. When a Christian couple experiences problems in their marriage, it Is important to sit themselves down and reflect on the possible causes. When this is done, it would surprise you that the way they handle lovemaking is a contributing factor.
The truth is that most Christian couples handle lovemaking poorly and that has affected their marriage greatly. They don't make love regularly due to different reasons. A spiritual wife might tell her husband that she is carrying out 6-day fasting and prayer and for that, no lovemaking during the period. From the fasting, she brings another thing up.
You are only going to suffer your marriage in the process. Do you know that making love regularly can strengthen your marriage? In case you don't know, I have put together 3 ways it can do that. This is what I called 3 Reasons why Christian couples should make love regularly.
1. It builds up the bond between you.
One of the problems that usually lead to other problems in marriage is "emotional detachment". When you are no longer attached to your partner emotionally, many problems can come up. Through regular lovemaking, both of you would be more attached emotionally. It grows the bond between both of you which makes you miss each other greatly when you are apart.
2. It reduces the risk of infidelity.
Infidelity is a big problem that has scattered many homes today. When a wife is not faithful to the husband and decided to sleep with another man, infidelity has taken place. The same thing applies to the husband. Why should a married man/woman sleep with another person? It could be a result of the fact that the marriage lacks lovemaking.
Therefore, if you don't want him/her to make love to another, the ball is in your court. When a woman keeps satisfying her husband regularly, it would be difficult for him to think of looking elsewhere since he is a Christian. So, do the needful.
3. The Bible supports it.
The Bible frowns at anything that has to do with deprivation when it comes to lovemaking. If it is not the agreement of both of you, then you are not allowed to deprive your partner of lovemaking. You want to fast for 6 days and for that, no lovemaking, agree with your partner first.
Let us take a look at the book of 1 Cor. 7:5.
Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. NIV
What would you do as a husband if your wife decide to go on 6-day fasting and prayers without first agreeing with you? Mind you, she won't make love to you during that period. Please do well to share the article.
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