1. "There's no use in agonising about things that are beyond your control"
To be grieving on something you can't change exhaust your energy and brings about irrelevant stress. Sometimes, you don't have a choice than to accept things as they are. Allow the outcomes to unfold itself. With time everything will soon be better.
2. "Live more in the moment"
A past is a good place to visit but not actually a good place to stay. Try not to dwell on the past or be concern about the future. Why? You can't change the past neither can you predict the future. The only moment that's important now is this present moment. The present is what become the future. So make the best of this moment now.
3. "Don't wait to tell people how you feel about them"
Once the opportunity present itself, seize it. Don't let their reaction chicken you out. They may turn out to be what what you least expected. I mean, who knows? they may also be feeling the same way you are. But if it's the other way round, that is, if they don't respond the way you expected, don't be depress. At least you know you tried. We don't usually get the response we needed.
4. "Some people aren't always meant to be in your life forever"
This is a universal truth. No matter how long they have been around you, once they are done serving their purpose, they will exit. Don't let this depress you. Instead of you forcing yourself on them, please let them go.
5. "You can be independent and still need someone"
No matter how autonomous you may be- whether in terms of financial stability, that is, you can tend to your bills. You will still need someone to tend to you. Someone to help you nurture your mind, body and spirit. We all need that person that will can share our moments with.
6. "Some people will enter your life to serve a new purpose"
You may be unconscious of this at first. You may even be questioning their intentions but with time, it will become more clearer. Not everyone are destiny as an heartbreaker, there are good people out there with good intentions. So give them the chance to lighten your burden.
7. "Life consists of choices so choose wisely"
Whether we like it or not, the choices we choose in life will one way or the other affect our state of being. So choose wisely. Surround yourself with the people that will motivate you to do better and always be contented with what you have. Remember that, Only you hold the key to your own happiness. So choose to be happy and never forget that whatever the choice you choose in life, they can either affect your life positively or negatively. So choose wisely.
8. "Everyone should be allowed a chance to redeem him or herself"
You need to give a chance to apologise for their wrongs. One thing about forgiveness is that, you are not doing it for them but for yourself. Learn to forgive. Don't let grudges become an albatross in your life. It doesn't allow one to move forward in life. Give people second chance but not third.
9. " Learn to accept your flaws(mistakes) and imperfections rather than lament over them"
Why pretending? Are u saying, You are ashamed of your identity? Embrace who you are. It won't stop you from being loved. There is someone out there who was created to love your imperfection because your imperfection will always be perfect to them. Your flaws are what makes you unique, accept them.
10. "Have a good hearty laugh, a deeply passionate kiss, or a nice long cuddle when you're feeling down and out"
Nothing beat this, absolutely nothing. It's even more productive, if all these comes from someone you truly love.
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