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3 important things lovers must not lie about during courtship

Marriage is indeed a beautiful thing when the partners that are involved understand each other to a reasonable extent. Before taking the bold step of walking down the aisle with the chosen partner, there are periods or moments that every lover has to take seriously. This is the period of courtship.

Courtship as defined by Google is "a period during which a couple develop a romantic relationship before getting married." Courtship has nothing to do with religion or tribe, it is meant to be observed by all intending couples. Remember, marriage is the union of two people from different families and of course different backgrounds.

Source: Google

The period of courting goes beyond just knowing each other casually, a few things need to be revealed during this period and three of such things will be discussed in the subsequent paragraphs.

1. The Financial strength or income.

This is one of the major factors that need to be sorted and revealed before going to the altar. So male partners have made it a habit to oppress their female partners with the kind of lifestyle that they should not have.

To avoid, divorce or any other marriage issue, experts warn that both partners should reveal their financial strength to each other.

It is not all female partners that are interested in material things, earn their trust by speaking the truth only about what they earn as income.

Also, share your past financial transactions and talk about each others business strengths.

2. The Lovemaking lifestyle

It is okay if you do not want to practice it, but that doesn't stop lovers from telling each other about their sexual desires. Do not pretend to be who you are not.

Source: Google

Talk about it because the result of courtship is marriage and there is no reason why partners should be shy to talk about this at the earliest stage.

3. The health status.

This is an important factor that needed to be discussed thoroughly. Also, a medical test needs to be run if there is a need to get any facts.

The smallest of the cramps that the female partners pass through needs to be discussed and if there is any medical history in the past, let your partner know about it before marriage.

All these are necessary to avoid some issue that affects most young couples.

Although there are more to discuss, these three points need to be discussed with utmost sincerity.

Source: Pulse Ng

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