Seven Types Of People You Need To Avoid In Life If You Want To Be Successful
The reason why you need to avoid the people is that they will be detrimental to your health and success, so if you want to leave a healthy and successful life you just have to avoid them.
The first person is gossip, this is those people who talk about other people, those who agonize, those who talk about people behind their backs, most probably,if they talk about people around you, they are going to talk about you when you are gone.
Most of the time start talking about people and they will start adding negative aspect of them and you are going to say chii stop I don’t want to hear that and you can avoid the conversation, if you listen to gossip, it means you are a gossip yourself and you will start have negative feelings about the person gossiped about.
At time gossips are within your circle, may be the person you work with, your family member or your friend, you have to let them know that gossip is not going to help anybody, even the person being gossiped about.
The second person you have to avoid is jealous haters. They are basically people that want to get your way, they love you inside, but they don’t know how to express it. A lot of them will devalue you that you are not doing enough.
I want you to believe that credit make you better but heater make you do it faster, don’t let them devalue your soul don’t let them de-thrown you let them know that you are child of God and you are made to do something special.
You want to ask how do I know this person is hater or not, how do I know of this person is jealous. When you tell them something good they want to shut it down automatically.
They want to overpower you or differ you exactly about what you are telling them, they want to limit your accomplishment and make you feel as if you are not doing enough.
The third person you need to avoid are time wasters, these time waster come in different forms ,since all these time wasters are there everywhere, you have to understand the kind of time waster you are dealing with, some of them like to talk about nonsense things, if they do, you have to tell them to show the bottom line, some people like to say what are important like celebrity gossips, spots just anything to waste time, you have to shut them down and ask them to go straight to the point so that you can get on with your business.
Most time waster are completely unaware of time, they don’t know how to manage time themselves, so it is now intentional for them to take away your time ,what you need to do is to kindly show them love and let them know you have import things to do and will get to them some other time.
The fourth person you should completely avoid are money grabbers. These are the people who run away when time to pay the bill, people who just keep on asking for things, people who just want to spend your money.
Now how do you know who money grabber is, ask yourself who grab my money, am I buying things for people to help them or because they are asking me ,a lot of times money grabbers will ask for what they don’t need and that is how you know that you are dealing with money grabber.
The fifth person you should completely avoid is over sensitive people, people who come with so much emotional baggage ,people who have ten thousand problems or more every time, over sensitive people are there everywhere in the world, you just have to understand that they don’t have no part in your life.
Now how do you know if someone is an over sensitive person, usually you can tell if they are very perky about everything, they are perky about their cloth, they are perky about their conversations, they feel they are always being attacked.
They perky about everything they do about everything they see, these people might be helpful in your life but don’t spent too much time with them if you have big goal you want to accomplish.
The sixth type of person you have to completely avoid are excuse makers, they always come up with excuses all the time .They are always hungry, they are always tire ,they are always bored, they are always broke.
They have million of excuses and they will never take action because they want you to get cut up in their excuses. At times we have seen successful people who are also excuse makers, you have to understand that excuse makers come in different forms ,you have to begin to understand what excuse this person have or completely avoid them.
There are a lot of people that will tell you why it won’t work, why you should not do it or why it is not happening, you have to understand what they are really saying, some times they might have felling for you, but that feeling is illegitimate, you have to understand it and dismiss it, if you believe it is something you should be doing.
The seventh type of person you have to avoid are miseducated people. Not uneducated people, miseducated people, Those who have wrong ideas about what it takes for you to be successful.
There many people who have education, there a lot of people who are highly educated, they have certificates, they have credential, they have degrees, they have awards ,they have all kinds of trainings but it doesn’t mean they know exactly what you need to do to become successful. This type of people are enemy friend.
Some time you have to watch out very well and understand the person you are doing business or dealing with. There are a lot of miseducated people, you have to understand most of them are educated in societal terms but they may not have common sense, they may not have wisdom, or simple understanding.
You have to watch out for them and not allow them to distract you from your greater purpose.
In summary, you will realize that a lot of time there is no way you could avoid these people but the best to do is to understand them and gather the intelligence necessary to make the wise choices about the people you will interact and deal with.
Perhaps you have a lot of a lot of acquaintances you will interact with but try and understand the person you are dealing with and try to gravitate towards the people that will help you to reach your highest goals.
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