It’s understandable that out of the billion men in the world, only a handful are actual Prince Charmings. Men or women, we’re all human beings after all, and with that being said we carry flaws and mistakes, together with our other more desirable traits.There’s no perfect boyfriend, If you claim to love the woman in your life, then you should never do any of the things listed below to her.
1. Degrade her as a person.
This is a cruel act that many people do and they oftentimes do this subconsciously or without being aware of it at all. Degrading your girlfriend can come in different ways. If you make fun of her dreams, nitpick on her actions, or insult her personality, you are already degrading her.
2. Cheat on her.
The number one mortal sin on every woman’s list. You should never cheat on your lady love. You could count off every excuse in the book but it will never justify this horrible action. Be responsible enough to secure yourself before going into a relationship. If you’re unsure of the reasons for your actions or you’re thinking of doing this, then stop yourself right there and come clean to your girlfriend. It’s always better to be honest with her than to go behind her back. Although it will hurt her at first, finding someone else without telling her will hurt her even more.
3. Don't put work before her.
Many men take it upon themselves to provide the best possible life for their partner. While this is admirable, don’t allow your work to distract you from what’s truly important.
4. Don't criticize your woman in front of others.
When there’s tension between you and her, it’s important to remain calm and collected. Don’t allow yourself to say something, especially in front of others, that you may come to regret.
5. Don't take advantage of her kindness.
One reason you probably fell in love with your woman is her sweet nature. Women can be very caring and generous; but this doesn’t give you the right to take advantage. Reciprocate kindness, as well.
6. Don't try to control her.
As partners, you should both understand that time apart is both healthy and necessary. When she tries to have a night to herself, let her be without trying to control het
7. You should never get her pregnant and disappear into thin air. Be a man and face your responsibilities. If you are old enough to be intimact with her, then you should be old enough to handle whatever comes out of it.
8. Don't lie to her face.
Never lie about the little things because if you can do this, it would be much easier for you to lie about the big things. In fact, why lie in the first place? Relationships are built on trust and transparency with no room for lies. It’s acceptable to make mistakes at first, but if you keep repeating them and apologizing for the same things over and over again, then it’s a different story. You might be lying to yourself this time instead of your girlfriend. Take some time to think about why you’re in this relationship in the first place.
9. You should never request for her nudes, save them and show them to your friends. This is an immature thing to do.
10. You should never threaten her just because she turned you down. Doing this shows you are less of a man. She has the right to say NO to you.
11. You shouldn’t intentionally get her drunk so you can be intimate with her. This is rape and no real man will do this.
12. He should never make her feel like an afterthought.
While a relationship shouldn’t be someone’s entire life, it’s certainly a large part of it. I’ve heard too many stories about women who constantly get cast aside for “guy’s night” or something similar. A man should have a network and individuality, sure. But there is a difference between leading an active social life, and knocking the woman in your life further and further down your priority list is very bad.
13. You should never abuse her.
There are many different types of abuse, certainly not just physical, and certainly not just in a relationship. Someone can be emotionally abusive toward a child as well as their significant other. Regardless, they all have one thing in common: The desire to break another down. A good man recognizes that his confidence and worth comes from within himself and never from attempting to place others below him. At any sign of any type of abuse, walk (run) away immediately. It will not get better, and you deserve more. We need to stop making excuses for those who mistreat us and start lowering our tolerance for this nonsense. Any self-respecting decent human being will treat you with the love and compassion that you deserve. If they don’t, then what’s the point of staying with them?
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