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How to Plan a First Date With a Lady

Going on a first date can feel like walking on a tightrope. You’re wondering if you’d impress this girl enough to get a shot at a second date. If you were lucky enough to score a date in the first place chances are you can get a second and a third even. Where will you go? What will you do? What if she doesn't like the colour of your shirt? It is only natural to worry about impressing your date. The good news is that with the right strategies, you can get a girl swooning over you on the first meet. 

You want your date to be relaxed, fun, and hard to forget. One thing you should know before leaving your room is that your date is probably nervous too. She’s also obsessing about making a lasting impression, now this leaves you with the responsibility of easing her nerves by leading the conversation and activities. Shifting your attention to her nerves relieves the pressure on yours. 

Here are some tips to help you have a nice date;

Be Confident 

The best way to curb your insecurities is working on making them better, for example, if you’re insecure about bad breathes, it is better to go on your date with breath mints. This helps you have a positive but realistic perception of yourself. If you're already a pretty confident person, you can tone it down with a bit of humor to create a harmonious balance. The point is to manifest your admirable qualities without appearing arrogant. 

Pay Compliments

 Compliments are a great way to make your date feel relaxed around you. Take advantage of opportunities to praise her for what she does or says, but remember to be sincere. If you try to act differently than you feel, you’re going to come of a dishonest or plain weird. 

Think Outside the Box

Although going out to dinner and a movie are nice date ideas, you don’t have to restrict yourself to these options. You’re young and vibrant, there’s a countless list of other fun things you can do to bond with your date. You can hit up an arcade, go for a swim, go to a poetry reading, o bowling, play ping-pong, go on a picnic, play laser tag, go for a bike ride, etc. The point is to have fun and get to know your partner. 

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