Bonding with your spouse isn't just about going to bed; it's about getting to know the individual you'll live your entire life with.
Intimacy in a marriage is one of the most wonderful experiences one can enjoy. If it's absent in a marriage, it has further consequences.
If you want to have a healthy and successful marriage, let's have a look at some of the common intimacy problems in a marriage that you need to avoid.
You expect your spouse to stay faithful, but you don't take any action.
If you don't want your spouse to be unfaithful, you must be ready to give him or her reasons to do so. Your spouse has desires for physical intimacy that should be met.
Another issue is the lack of satisfaction. This is a big intimacy problem that wreaks havoc on marital bliss.
Marriage becomes a burden instead of being a pleasure. You have to discuss this with your spouse and let them know your desires with all sincerity.
Remind them that your needs to be emotionally and physically satisfied are connected.
Another issue is that a strange desire for intimacy can just come up at some point.
When you're asleep, and your spouse wakes you up at 2 a.m. requesting intimacy, it can be a rude wakeup that you must learn to deal with.
Another time, you may be discussing something important with your spouse, and suddenly, they jump on you as if that would solve all the troubles in the world.
Being legally joined together means physical intimacy is legal if both of you agree, regardless of how and when you do it.
However, you should give room for foreplay and don't jump immediately into it.
Don't make your partner develop a phobia of getting close to you because of this.
Keep in mind that intimacy just gives pleasure to our bodies; it's affection and foreplay that give pleasure to our souls.
Never blame each other for the lack of intimacy. It's not your fault, it's not your wife's fault.
If one or both of you are always busy with office work or tired after coming home, plan periodic dinner dates.
Fix a time for physical intimacy and don't take it for granted.
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