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It is a major concern to a lady to win the love of her man's family. The man's family would always expect some things from any lady loved by their son.
Getting along with your man's family requires a lot from a from. With some tips, you could influence the decision of his family on loving and accepting you.
Here are the tips that could help a lady win the love of a man's family:
1. Be an asset:
An asset adds value and worth to a relationship. When you are self-reliant, you are not a liability. Becoming an asset gives you credibility. Most families ensure that their sons don't marry liabilities. A lady is loved when she is not a liability.
2. Have humility:
Make sure you remain humble in dealing with them. Don't look down on them if your family might be richer, more educated, more prominent and renowned than his family. Acknowledge their level of achievement and social status. Avoid being high minded. Families detest pride.
3. Be mannered:
You must be courteous in relating with them. Learn to be gentle and polite. Your man's family would always want to find out if you are well trained and nurtured. Rudeness is not a virtue.
4. Value their family heritage:
Every family has a belief and value system. You need to observe and respect it. Do not criticise or try to devalue it. If you have a contrary belief system, keep it to yourself or walk away.
5. Do not be a fault finder:
There is no perfect family on earth; each has its flaws and shortcomings. Accept them with their flaws. You shouldn't go about discussing or exposing the faults you have seen in your man's family.
6. Be real:
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Your man's family wants to know the real you. Pretence is an enemy of originality. Always be real whenever you are with them. Don't hide your temperament. Being original attracts their love for you.
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