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Opinion: How To Survive A Complicated Relationship

Romantic relationships can be complicated and messy. Some are fraught with arguments and bad feelings. Others are so perfect they make you dizzy with happiness. It doesn't matter what type of relationship you're in — there's a lot to be said for the ups and downs of love, the joy that occasional afternoons with your lover can bring, or cringing while watching your partner eat cold French fries on the couch because they don't realize you're too busy dealing with work to tell them about it yourself.

In a complicated relationship, it's easy to get so caught up in the moment that you don't see all the warning signs and there are plenty of ways to tell if your relationship is about to go off the rails.

1. You Can't Stand Their Habits: If you can't stand their habits, it's time to let go. You may have accepted their quirks and you don't even always know why or explain it. One thing you are sure off is that their habits is always upsetting. A sudden hating of habits and disappearance of affection is a tale sign that the relationship is hitting the rocks.

2.The Bad In Your Relationship Is Getting Worse: It can be hard to believe that your partner is capable of being just as bad as they've been in the past. Most people have a bad day. Everyone has days where they're rude, or even downright mean. But if you notice your partner becoming more entitled and selfish, it's time to start thinking about how you could get out of this relationship.

You Can't Stand The Silence: You've learned to love the sound of your partner's voice. It's soothing, and you feel connected but all of a sudden a little issue leads to a prolong silence even when you try to break the silence it doesn't work. This is a sign that something is wrong. When you begin to love the silence of your other half something is off the balance.

You Can't Stand To Be Together: This is a tricky one. You may think that you and your lover have a little too much going on in your relationship, but there are times when you don't want to be with them. This is a sure sign that something more serious is at hand. If you're thinking about how you'd feel if they weren't around, or if you've stopped caring about what happens to your lover, it's time to start looking for someone better suited for your needs.

You Can't Stand Their Other Partner: You may not be able to put your finger on why you feel so strongly about this particular person, but you know that there are things about them that bother you and make you uncomfortable. If you prefer to avoid those people, then this is a problem.

You can definitely tell that your relationship has become complicated when you don't have the kind of relationship that you'd have ever thought you might want. If the above listed signs ring true for your relationship, then it's time to start thinking about how you could get out of this relationship and find someone better suited for your needs.

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