Marriage is hard, we all know that. Whether it was an arranged marriage or one of love and passion, the fact is that not all marriages are perfect. One of the most challenging parts of a marriage can be when there is no sex involved. There are many reasons for this to happen and if you find yourself in this situation you may be wondering how to deal with sexless marriage. The first thing to remember if you find yourself in this situation is that your needs should always come first. Sex is something that should be enjoyed and enjoyed together as a couple. Sex is not something you should put aside and avoid. If you find yourself in this situation it may be time to open up with your partner about what you are feeling.
Sexless marriage can be traumatic. It is common that both partners experience low or no sexual activity. If you are not on the same page about this it can result in both of you feeling lost or depressed. Remember that it is often hard to understand exactly what your partner is going through. Do not be afraid to try to find out what they are going through and listen to their concerns. Often times people are hesitant about talking about this type of thing with their partners out of fear that it will make things worse and more tense in the relationship. In most cases, however, this is not the case. Try to find out what your partner needs from you and what they want from you. Often times couples will feel that they do not know what to say or do in a situation like this.
One of the most important ways in dealing with sexless marriage is to communicate with your partner openly about how you are feeling. Make sure to make these feelings known head on and talk about what is going on for both of you at the time. If sex is not something that is extremely important to you or your partner, this can be skipped over and you can move forward with your lives. However, if it is a big concern for you both, then it is time to take make out time to talk about how you feel and what you need from each other.
Sexless marriage is not a bad thing as long as both partners are willing to work through the issue together. Remember that “no sex” does not mean “no love”. If you are in this situation, do not be afraid to take the time to work through the problem with your partner. You will be surprised at the outcome once you try this method.
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