Building a healthy relationship requires a lot of understanding. You need to learn how to deal with your partner in a way that will boost their confidence.
Some people find it difficult to know what their partners want to build trust in their relationship.
This is why they feel that comparing their partners to others will make them step up their game. Whereas, it's killing their feelings of trust.
It threatens their confidence and undermines their efforts in the relationship. You must do everything you can to avoid it.
Maybe your partner had a good job many years ago, but don't compare their past to their present situation. It can cause emotional trauma for them.
Whatever your partner might have done to hurt you many years ago, make sure it's no longer relevant in your relationship today.
Your partner might have changed. Don't compare the way they looked many years ago to how they look now. Nobody likes to feel humiliated.
Don't expect your partner to be able to do what they could do many years ago. Don't compare your partner to your ex. We all have our individuality.
You'll be making a big mistake if you expect your partner to talk and behave like a Nigerian celebrity. Allow your spouse to be their true self in the relationship.
Make sure you don't compare your relationship to other people's relationships. People only show you what they want you to see. You have no idea what others are undergoing.
Some relationships look appealing, but both partners are secretly suffering from unresolved issues. You won't know unless they disclose it.
Don't expect your relationship to be perfect. Never compare your partner's financial situation to the exuberant lifestyles of others.
You don't know the struggles they are passing through. Be happy and grateful for what your partner has. This will make them trust you.
Remember that nobody has it all. Someone's mansion is another person's storehouse.
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