The most common depiction of love in life is that of a bargain, when two people play a game with one other, where one does this and the other does that. We call it a compromise because of this. We can see it with new eyes if we genuinely think about the question, "Am I in love?" and learn how love truly works through us.
We believe there is something here for us because of chemistry. We sense the chemistry, and we're confident that there's more love, passion, life, and everything available in this relationship. The chemistry, though, is all about the genetic pool. The genes are looking to continue their mutative process through humans, and they require reproduction. It's all about conceiving and having children.
Our differences are what create this chemistry. We are drawn to what we lack, and chemistry dictates that we reproduce with someone who is not identical to us.
We are drawn to the pool of what is different biologically and genetically. When we're young and looking for a mate for a family, it's obvious to understand how heredity influences our lives.
Because our gene pool is simply interested in reproducing, it doesn't care how difficult it is to be with someone so different. Nature created us to reproduce, and this is what motivates us to follow the chemistry.
New genetic material can be formed if anything is different, when something isn't like ourselves. As a result, we fall into the age-old trap of being drawn to opposites and then suffering in a relationship that doesn't truly suit us but served the genetic pool well. We are trapped in a trap when we follow the chemistry. We shall be naturally inclined to look for likeness: the precise polarity is where we can be secure once human genetics are no longer responsible for mating us to our exact opposites.
It's been proved that the more we have in common, the more likely we are to enjoy each other's company. We don't have a natural inclination to choose people who are similar to us. It's a bore genetically.
In any gathering, it can be difficult to discover the individual who is most like ourselves. We don't give them much thought. We never stop to think about it "So, what exactly is it? That's an unusual situation." This is due to the fact that it isn't the case.
It's critical to know that there is no tension when seeking for a relationship. From our ability to be awake, we can see that in any connection, being comfortable with the other person is the first step.
Chemistry is a tense substance that is frequently misinterpreted as sexual tension. We've come to find out that there's peace in comfort. Begin to notice and enjoy the various levels of comfort, such as the most comfortable spot.
When meeting someone, search for someone who feels calm and relaxed, like a calm lake in the early morning simply waiting for you to jump in. It's a damp and refreshing day. Your newly acquired knowledge can help you live in harmony with those you care about. We can truly be with someone once we understand love for what it is.
Without considering what might work, change, or improve, since it allows us to become increasingly drawn to what is familiar and natural to us.
Be sensible and look for similar things; the more similar things you can find, the better. Jump out of a plane if you're looking for a thrill.
This inherent instinctual desire affects all of us while we are young. We can understand the chemistry of being different and what true companionship is as we grow older.
Find someone that makes you feel at ease and get right in.
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