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Why You Shouldn't Be a Clingy Partner

Many people cling to their relationships without realizing they are strangling them. They cling to their lovers so tightly in the name of love and affection that the relationship becomes toxic. Is it possible to damage a relationship by being excessively clingy? What goes through the head of a clingy person in a relationship? Let's find out everything there is to know.

1. It's possible that your significant other will become tired of you.

It depends on the nature of your relationship. If you're "sort of" in a relationship, you don't want to be that person who clings to someone who doesn't actually want to be with you. Believe me when I say that you're more likely to repel them than to attract them. It's appealing to be self-sufficient. People enjoy spending time with others with whom they do not have to spend all of their time. If you're already in a relationship, clinginess might lead to jealousy, which makes people want to leave you.

2. It causes you to become reliant on others for happiness.

Clinginess is one of the most difficult qualities to deal with because not everyone prefers clinginess in their partner. Sure, some people might think it's adorable that you want to spend every waking hour with them and talk to them, but you could be hurting yourself more than you realize. Clinginess makes you more reliant on someone, making it more difficult to break free. You don't want to pin your happiness on a single person (unless, of course, it's you).

3. Distance could creep in

When one person in a relationship is clingy, the other can feel suffocated with attention. Because of the need to be cooped up together and in each other's faces all the time, your partner may become emotionally distant. They may decide to end the relationship simply to give themselves some breathing room.

4. It could make your partner doubt your compatibility.

Acting needy and clinging is a sign of insecurity, and it can make your partner question whether you're compatible enough to last a long time. These behaviors can wreak havoc on even the most stable relationships. This puts you at risk of being abandoned by a loved one for the second time.

5. Argument could creep in

In a relationship with one clinging spouse, you'll spend a lot of time bickering about trivial matters. The clingy partner's overprotective disposition will result in numerous disagreements and confrontations. The affected person will feel aggrieved and subjugated, whilst the clingy partner will desire to be in charge, resulting in conflict and dispute. The unpleasant truth is that being a clinging partner makes you a horrible partner.


Few people enjoy being labeled as clinging. While it may appear to be a natural reaction to strong emotions, it might overwhelm your spouse and cause a split in your relationship. Clinginess can be a sign of anxiousness, and it can make it difficult to enjoy the simple pleasures of a relationship. It is, however, very possible to transition out of this pattern and into more healthy interactions with your partner. Accepting your characteristics and communicating openly with your partner might help you manage clinginess in your relationship.

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