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4 Possible Reasons Someone Is Not Ready For A Relationship, Even If They Like You

Feelings are easy to catch, it is the confessing, committing and compromising that require the real work. You can meet someone any day; be inspired by one another, have fun together, but not put a label on anything. What’s the deal with that anyway? Here are four (4) possible reasons someone is not ready for a relationship ( even if they like you).

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1. THEY ARE NOT COMPLETELY OVER THEIR EX

They like and respect you which is why they don't want to get involved with you anytime soon - they just got out of a long-term relationship and it takes time to get over their ex. It is not a reflection of who you are that keeps them from wanting to commit, but it is just a lot of emotional baggage they need to do away with first before they can focus on the two of you.


2. THEIR JOB REQUIRES FREQUENT TRAVELLING

Whether constantly On-The-Go, can they even handle a long-term relationship? This are questions to carefully consider when you meet someone. If you are especially the type of person to create stability in building a strong relationship, it's no wonder they are not ready to establish anything serious with you. They are aware that they aren't always going to be in a single setting for too long, but they appreciate the connection the both of you made. Or, they may not get too attached to you in the first place because it would be painful for them when they leave.


3. THEIR VALUES DON'T ALIGN WITH YOURS

Maybe you feel like you will never find someone quite like them - they share the same taste in music as you, you know how to finish each other's sentences and sharing dessert is always a treat with them. But that is not necessarily a soul mate material per say. Deeper values may clash; maybe you don't want kids but they do, or you see yourself living in the big city but they want a quiet life in the suburbs. It is this differences that will test if you two can establish a long-term relationship.


4. THEY ARE IN A SUPER STRESSFUL TIME

They might be joggling loss like family death or unemployment, or they can be experiencing the opposite; whether working too much and can't find out time to be with you consistently. In this case, they have so much going on but the idea of dating seems nearly impossible. It would be more like a burden to their health and your own instead of benefiting both sides.


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