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5 things that tell you if he/she is serious about you

A million dollar question, are they serious to you? В We have all spent that time in life when we do not know exactly where we are in someone's life. Gets It becomes frustrating when it does not escape our heads even for a second. when we are with them. Here are 5 things that will eventually tell you if they really love you and are in it for life.


This says a lot about how one accepts the relationship. A relationship is not just about time, but also about spending time as a couple with others. A person who wants you to be in his life will not hesitate to introduce you to his close friends and family. You are both partners in everything and that is why it is important for people close to you to know how serious you are about your partner and how important you are to your partner. Remember, this will happen spontaneously if you plan to have a long term relationship. A A man or woman who has been reluctant to introduce you to their friends is still confused about the relationship.


Someone who sees his / her future in you is sure to start discussing it. Now, this does not always mean marriage, it would be unfair to your partner if you expect him / her to talk about marriage when you both have a future. Marriage is the biggest decision in a person's life, and everyone takes the time to decide. Sometimes things are clear in your mind and you want the next step to be marriage, but at the same time they are not so clear to your partner. Maybe they want a home of their own before they marry you or maybe even a better job. Let Let them take their time, but see if they talk about doing things together, down the line. If they talk about things in three to four years, they will definitely see this going somewhere. In short, you will know about yourself by how you include them in their future plans.


You only want someone's advice on something if you really respect them and want them to be part of your decisions. Shoulder Assume you have been given a choice at work and do not know what to do, to whom will you call for advice? If If your partner takes you seriously, they will respect that you have sought their advice and will try to help you as much as possible. The same goes for when they have to make big decisions. If they want you to advise them on small things, know that this is what a PARTNER does. They make you part of everything they do.


I’m sure you all know this, but the real job is to be able to understand this without them saying it.

If they truly appreciate the time you have spent together, they will make it clear through their actions.

Consulting with you before making plans with their friends is a big sign. This does not mean that if your partner does not contact you every time, you start to doubt their intentions. Every person is different with different signs.

They can make plans without contacting you because they have already decided that they would take you or could make plans. If you do not like it, cancel them or make up for it by making another plan with you. Respect all these actions, they do them because they care about how you feel and also because they want to spend time with you. If you are the only one pushing all the plans one by one, be prepared, perhaps not too seriously.


This is the biggest sign and also the most misunderstood. It is important that your partner occasionally assures you that they love you, that you mean a lot to them. You do not necessarily have to be spoken to or expressed about you in the form of a bouquet. It could be everything they do for you. Fix Fix something that is important to you or maybe how they put their arms around you when you both watch TV or do not leave your side when you are sick, and sometimes get weird seeing you smile. Different people express their love differently and you have to take it as it is. Just know, if they are serious they will make it clear, they will make you feel important and they will take care of how they feel.

You have to do the same for them.

Did you find it? What was your biggest "sign"? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!

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