When used properly, technology can strengthen the relationship between a husband and wife. For example, it can help a couple stay in touch throughout the day.
However, some spouses allow misuse of technology to . . .
1) rob them of valuable time together.
2) bring work into the home unnecessarily.
Some people have to be available around the clock because of the nature of their secular work. Others, whose jobs are not so demanding, still find it difficult to leave their job behind them at the end of the day. Here is what some couples had to say concerning their struggle with the use of technology at home:
“It’s hard not to check every phone call or text message that I receive for work during time that I’ve set aside to spend with my wife,” admits a husband named Lee. A wife named Joy says: “I work from home, so work is always present. It takes effort to be balanced."
3) create distrust and even disloyalty.
One poll found that suspicious use of social media was a common cause of marital fights. Ten percent of those surveyed admitted posting material online that they keep hidden from their spouse. For good reason, social media has been called a “marriage minefield” and even “an adultery service.” Not surprisingly, divorce lawyers say that social media plays a significant role in many of today’s marriage break-up.
WHAT YOU CAN Do?
* SET PRIORITY.
A person who neglects eating will not stay healthy. Similarly, a person who neglects spending time with his or her spouse will find it difficult to maintain a healthy marriage.
To create a balance, couples should do the following:
* Have at least one meal together each day.
* Create periods of time to unplug from our devices.
* Schedule a date night or other special time together.
* Keep our devices off at night, away from where we sleep.
* Set aside 15 minutes daily to talk to each other, without devices nearby.
* Turn off Internet access at a specified time.
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