The goal of every relationship is to spend a lifetime together and enjoy the benefit of being together. But unfortunately some relationships do not last due to certain reasons. However, here are ways by which couples can prevent themselves from drifting apart:
1. TALK DAILY
Everyone must talk daily, if your spouse is not talking to you daily, your spouse is talking to someone else or other people and that is dangerous. Don't let anyone take your position of daily chat mate in your spouse's life
2. KNOW EACH OTHER'S FAMILY AND FRIENDS
When his family, her family, his friends and her friends are one big close unit it is difficult to drift apart.
3. HAVE FUN, LAUGH TOGETHER
People don't leave an environment that is fun. If you make things between you two boring, always serious and a daunting task; both of you will get tired of each other
4. WORSHIP THE SAME GOD
It is wonderful when you talk to your spouse about how good God is and your spouse knows what you mean. When you worship the same God you both have similar values and mindset making it easy to foster unity
5. DO THINGS THAT SPOUSES DO
Kiss, cuddle, hold hands, take showers together, talk intimate stuff exclusively to each other; this tightens your bond.
6. DECLARE YOUR LOVE PUBLICLY
When the public knows you two are a couple, much of the public will respect your marriage making it easier for you to strengthen your love
7. PRAY TOGETHER
A couple that prays together stays together. Learn the habits of praying together and see God's changes in your life.
8. GO TO THE SAME PLACE OF WORSHIP
When you both worship with the same congregation it makes it easy for you two to chart the same course. You have alot of things to discuss about your worship centre and other things.
9. GROW TOGETHER INTELLECTUALLY
Advance in the growth of mind, be at the same level so that none feels the other is too underexposed or shallow or too deep and an intellectual brag
10. GROW TOGETHER FINANCIALLY
Walk as a team, if one has little, support him/her; if you both have few, work together towards increase; if you both have plenty, use your joint wealth to love each other.
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