Hey! Guys, cheating is the only option.
Sandra got married to boluwatife in the most memorable and elegant wedding ceremony. Families, friends, and well-wishers were happy and congratulated them.
The early days were good as they both grew, listened to each other, accept corrections making the couples a reference point as an ideal couple amongst the people.
6 months into the union, things had changed with constant struggles, unfaithfulness, and bolu( The husband) now having extramarital affairs.
Why do men cheat?
- Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.
- If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.
- The wife gaining excess weight making her look less attractive.
- Too much nagging by the couples; this results in dissatisfaction.
- Not matured enough to discuss the problems that are sex-related.
How to change your cheating spouse.
Be willing to Initiate sex: The majority of married men complain of their spouse not satisfying their Basic needs in the " room" hence the resort to cheating.
Be willing to experimentation:
To make things better, to t is obvious you need to hold very sensitive conversation which might affect the chemistry between both of you. The aftermath would result in you can experimenting with different ideas to make him stop this illicit act.
Show and express love yo him.
Every man has a soft spot for certain things; when you these to assure your Man of your love daily, things begin to change automatically.
Tell and show him how much you appreciate his uniqueness and person. The best way is the non- confrontational way.
Get a confession and check if they are repentant.
It is a different and easier issue if your husband cheats, it is a more difficult if he does not act sober after being found culpable.
This is indefensible and may need you to make a decision if you would like to move on with life.
Give it time: When someone wise said, time heals it all, they were very true. There’s nothing that time doesn’t get you to forget. Give your relationship space and time, and also, don’t bring back the bad memories of your relationship. Let bygones be bygones. Try never to bring it up in any discussion with your friend.
These are proven strategies on how to overcome men who take pride in cheating; most times, it is a consequence of frustration or expressed love between the couples. We can't do the right things with the wrong method.
Having said that , what do you think makes Men cheat in a relationship?
Let's hear your view!
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