Many women nag because they believe that nagging would force their spouse to change or give them what they want. Nagging is harmful to your relationship and might cause it to fall apart. The more you agitate your partner, the more unhealthy your relationship gets. Furthermore, you don't have to be a pest in order to obtain what you want from your spouse. This is how you go about it.
1. APPEAL TO HIS SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS
Women who know how to stroke their man's ego will almost always get what they want from him, but the same cannot be true for women who constantly nag. Feed your man's ego, pamper him, and make him feel important; if you do, he'll feel obligated to follow your orders.
2. SELECT THE OPTIMAL MOMENT
Timing is crucial in everything we do in life. When you want to get something from your man, it's even more crucial. You should do it at the correct time, when he is comfortable, happy, and sociable. It's possible that going at the wrong time will enrage him.
3. VALUE THE THINGS HE DOES
Appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how insignificant they are. He'll want to do more for you if he knows you appreciate even the simple things. He will want to do more if he is appreciated.
4. RETURN FAVORS TOO
It shouldn't be all about you constantly asking, requesting, and demanding. If your man does anything nice for you, you should return the favour. Another technique to enhance his ego and make him feel special is to do this. When he feels this way, he may go above and more above for you.
5. HAVE PATIENCE
Don't get upset or resentful just because he refused to do what you asked, because this will drive you to nitpick and destroy the serenity in your relationship. Rather than bothering him, be tolerant with him and look for more subtle ways to win him over.
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