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How you can stay in love with a changing body

When we fall in love with a person, we fall in love with everything about them including the body. In fact, for some, it ranks the highest.

Of course the body will not remain the same and despite an attempt to approach it from an understanding perspective, you still want to be in love with your partner's body.

The body will continue to change as you age and use it, you'd be saving yourself a lot of trouble if you train your mind to evolve with it.

If your strength is beginning to fade and you can't touch down like you used to, it may just be the right time for you to explore other areas of satisfying the sexual urges of your partner.

If you are a young partner, the extent of the change may come as a shock which will trigger self-deceptive mind blocks but that won't change the reality, the desire to find a way to make it easy for your partner.

Stylish reminders may come and you may try to wave it aside but trust the mind, you will never rest easy if you are about making your partner happy, at least you'd give it all you've got.

Learn about the changes so that you can manage the mind and expectation of your partner. And don't get defensive over everything; allow your partner the freedom to tell you so that you can work on being better together.

Fathers, you are saluted, but please let's get over this "forever superman" mentality (if you wan argue start with 120 push-ups).

Understand how your body changes as you grow so that you gently ease your partner into said changes.

And stop drowning in inferiority complex, allow your partner the freedom to tell you where you need to get better so that you can work on it together.

This way, you will journey the changes together and discover reasons to fall in love with each unique stage.

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