It is without doubt that all relationships have secrets. However some people who are in relationships tend to get overexcited and reveal some things that should be kept as secrets.
Revealing these things can become damaging to the relationship. It causes fights, breaks trust and can lead to insecurity and infidelity.
Here are 4 things that must be kept a secret in every relationship.
1. Financial status
This issue is delicate even for someone who isn't in a relationship. Avoid discussing financial problems or increase with someone who doesn't and shouldn't need to know.
In the case of telling someone about financial increase in your relationship, it can lead to robbery. Anyone can do anything.
In the case of financial problems, the story is eventually going to spread, especially if it is told to the wrong person.
2. Sex life
How would you feel if your man discusses your sex life with people, and how would you feel if your woman does the same?
Probably pissed right? It is not right to tell anyone about how your sex life is going. It is disrespectful to your spouse.
The only person you can be allowed to open up to is your spouse obviously or your sex counsellor.
Couples, it is very wrong to discuss about the quarrels you have with your partner with other people.
Some people may just help you add fuel to the fire. If you feel that you need to tell someone, tell a counsellor.
Your parents and siblings will not help because they will probably be inclined to side with someone.
4. Human flaws
We as humans are very far from perfect. Everyone has flaws. And when you try to make anyone feel less human due to their flaws, it is just bad.
Don't ever discuss with your friends about your partner's flaws. They will never be happy if they get to know that you did.
To avoid problems from getting out of hands, always handle them with caution. Don't just go discussing things about your relationship with anyone.
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