A lot of guys find it difficult to approach a girl they think is attractive. It could be due to low self esteem or a bad experience they've had from approaching a girl for the first time. This is because a lot of these guys use the wrong approach and they end up getting rejected by the girl.
Walking up to a girl you've never spoken to before brings a lot of mixed emotions. You get nervous, you begin to doubt yourself, and your heart beats faster.
Walking up to a girl the right way should be one of the important dating etiquette every guy should know.
This is why in this article, I'm going to be giving 5 tips on how to approach a girl for the first time and make a good first impression.
1. Get her attention
How you do this is that you have to let her know that she has gotten your attention and you would want to approach her. How do you do this you might say. You achieve that by doing the following things below
a. Look at her every now and then but don't make it too obvious by staring at her when she catches your eyes. Instead, you look away when she catches your glance. Do this whenever she catches your glance and she'll begin to get curious and then look at you from time to time to see if you're still checking her out.
b. When you've noticed that you've gotten her attention, act awkward. What do I mean by this? I'll explain. If you are probably with friends and she sees that you're finding it difficult to focus on the conversation, she would assume that you probably have her on your mind and that is subtle flattery right there.
c. When you notice that she can't keep her eyes off you and you've gotten a little bit of courage, flash a tiny smile at her and make sure she sees this. A tiny smile not a big grin as this might put her off.
Doing this, you are building a connection with her and letting her know that you are interested and at the same time, you'll also get to find out if she's interested in you too.
2. Talk to the girl
Now that you've built a connection with said girl, you need to walk up to her and talk to her. The following ways below might help you do this and start up a right conversation with her.
a. You need to wait for the perfect moment to happen before going up to talk to her. If she's really interested in you, she would create opportunities for you to walk up to her. She would smile at you, leave her friend group to go answer a call, walk past you or if she's alone and notice that there's a connection already, it would be more easier to walk up to her.
b. If she's with her friends, walk towards them while keeping your gaze at her and her alone. Do not deviate your gaze from her. Then say something like "hey... I see you're busy with your friends and I really didn't mean to interrupt, but can I talk to you for a minute? I really would not be able to forgive myself if I left this place without getting to know you or your name at least". You can use any line you want but do make sure it shows how bad you really want to get to know her.
c. Buy her a drink. If probably you're at a bar and you see this girl that you like, call the waiter and tell them you'd like to buy a drink fir her. The waiter would then tell her that you were the one that bought the drink for her. If she accepts the drink, turns and smiles at you, this is a sign that you should go talk to her.
Use the tips above on how to approach a girl you don’t know and make a good first impression, and with a few attempts, you’ll have no trouble walking up to any girl you like and impressing her within minutes of making eye contact with her!
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