Once you decide to get married, it can feel like one swift free-fall toward the big day. It’s easy to get caught up in wedding planning and let every single interaction with your sweetie revolve around wedding details and decisions. But whether your wedding is months or years away, it’s important to take this time not only to prepare for a beautiful wedding, but to get ready for a lasting and happy marriage.
Before planning for a wedding with your Patner, here are some test you must do to avoid mistakes
When you do something nice for your partner it’s like making a “deposit” into their love bank account. When something negative happens in the relationship you are making a “withdrawal” from the account. You get the idea.
It’s the small things we do on a daily basis in our relationships that truly make a difference in strengthening our connection and bond to one another. When you are making deposits every day, it is almost like having an insurance policy for a fail-proof relationship that stands the tests of time.
2. Genotype Text:
This test will tell whether one or both partners are sicklers (SS), carriers of the sickle cell trait (AS) or whether their genotype is normal (AA).
Such is the importance of this test that even without being told, couples have been known to take the initiative of finding out for themselves. And where there are couples who are too careless to check, marriage counselors have been known to mandate it for anyone who wants to marry.
3. Sexual Compatibility Test
Sexual Compatibility is the "extent to which a couple perceives they share sexual beliefs, preferences, desires, and needs with their partner. Another form of sexual compatibility is the extent to which similarities exist between actual turn ons and turn offs for each partner emotionally, cognitively, and behaviorally.” This test is very important because without sexual Compatibility, marriage is useless.
4. Religious Tolerability test
Relationships are about finding ways to accommodate your partner without giving up whole parts of yourself. Before you consider dating someone whose religious beliefs do not align with yours, you might want to draw clear boundaries in the sand and then try to see what things you can agree on. You don’t want to feel blindsided when they start asking you to convert or do things you aren’t comfortable with.
5. Fertility Test:
Fertility tests are an essential part of fertility evaluation and treatment. Through testing, your doctor can possibly discover what's preventing you and your partner from achieving pregnancy.
6. Rhesus Factor Test
There are many things that we plan and make adjustments for, before we get married. But hardly do we pay heed to the medical concerns which are essential and for us and our partner's future before consummating the marriage. Knowing your partner's blood type is an essential requirement before getting married, as it may determine the health of your child. You must be fully aware of your partner's ABO and Rh blood type. While ABO refers to the different types of blood groups: A, B, O and AB, Rh is referred to a compound which may or not be present in your red blood cells. People with Rh compound are termed as Rh positive and people without the Rh compound are known as Rh negative
7. Emotional Intelligence Test:
Emotional Intelligence is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goals.
8. Perseverance Test:
The need for perseverance in relationships manifests at different levels; you need to decipher when it comes and decide how to handle it to the best of your knowledge and turn things in your favour. Your turn might be right at the beginning of the relationship where the people around you are trying to be sure you are convinced about your choice of who to marry.
9. HIV Test:
This is one of the important test between couples before going into marriage so they can know their status and also in future references.
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