How can you make your spouse stay committed ?
You can't force your spouse to stay with you but you can influence them to stay committed So how can you make your spouse stay committed in the marriage ?
GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT THEY WILL LOVE YOU .
GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT , THEY WILL STAY COMMITTED TO YOU .
The secret in keeping your spouse is in pleasing them . You have to understand , enjoy and fill the vacuum in their life by supplying their desire .
Everyone of us has deepseated desires . There are things we wish someone could do for us. Your spouse too has some things their heart craves for and that is your greatest opportunity to connect with them .
Wants are what connect us with others . Relationship and marriage break up easily when people feel they are not getting what they want . Everytime someone leaves a relationship, they are leaving to find someone else that can give them what they want . You can't beg or force your spouse to stay with you but with clarity of what they want you can make them stay committed . Please don't assume you know what they want rather ask them what they really want , listen to their words and watch their actions carefully . Be the supplier of their wants . If you do these you have a better chance of keeping them committed but if they leave you then either they will come back or they will regret losing you all the rest of their life .
Giving your spouse what they want is the strategy to make them stay committed . Give your spouse what they want as long as it is not destructive .
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