Many women have had the misfortune of falling into a relationship with a man who was just interested in using them, and they were completely unaware of it.
How can a lady tell if her man is exploiting her?
Here are six indicators he is taking advantage of you.
1. HE ONLY CONTACTS YOU WHEN HE NEEDS SOMETHING FROM YOU.
If your partner only contacts you when he needs something from you, especially physical intimacy, he is using you. A man who genuinely cares about you would always reach out to you.
2. HE REFUSES TO BE SEEN IN PUBLIC WITH YOU.
If your partner maintains the connection a secret and avoids being seen with you in public, he's clearly using you. A man who genuinely cares for you will be proud to show you off to the rest of the world.
3. HE IS FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON YOU.
If your boyfriend expects you to continually assist him financially and never bothers to earn his own money, he is exploiting you. He acts as if it is your obligation to always assist him financially, and he becomes enraged when you are unable to do so.
4. HE HATES TALKING ABOUT COMMITMENT WITH YOU.
If your partner refuses to talk about commitment with you, he's clearly using you. He knows he has no future with you, so such discussions either bore or irritate him.
5. HE DOESN'T HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST IN MIND.
If your partner isn't faithful to you but makes himself available to other women, he is using you. A man who is sincere and genuinely cares about you will be devoted to you.
6. HE IS ONLY CONCERNED WITH HIMSELF.
If all your partner cares about is himself and his satisfaction, he's using you. He does whatever he wants and is unconcerned about how his actions affect you.
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