Love is one of the strongest bonds, it does not break easily. I guess you can never completely lose any feeling for someone you once loved. Over time, loves gradually stop growing and it is when the bonds begin to weaken. Men, like women, want their needs met and their wishes met. Things that are important to them may not matter to you.
You should know that your husband is different. Womando's wife has to pay attention to the things that make her husband stop loving them. They are a series of blows that damage your relationship. Here is a list of things that make a man lose confidence in his wife.
If you treat him indifferently because of the bad experiences you have had in the past
It is very unreasonable to treat your partner indifferently because of the trauma you have suffered in your past. Do not enter into a relationship unless you are absolutely sure that you can give it a hundred percent.
If you're skeptical and judgmental about things he wouldn't do in your wildest dreams, he'll doubt his decision to let you go in his life. Nobody wants to be blamed for things they don't intend to do.
He will feel insecure that he cannot heal the bitter experiences he has had with his love in the past. This will damage his self-esteem, he will finally think it should let go. В - Continue reading on the next page
2. If you don't give your relationship enough time
Yes, he understands that you have a job, goals and ambitions. He realizes you're tired and sometimes you just don't have the time and energy to entertain him. But that doesn't mean you have the right to ignore him and your relationship.
I believe that a person can always create time for people and things that are important to them. Make time for him or he will feel used and rejected, this will have a drastic effect on his feelings for you.
3. When you feel intimacy as a favor or a job
S3x is the most beautiful relationship you share with the person you love. You feel wanted and full; it fills that void with feelings of unconditional love. Most people have sex because of how honored, open and free they feel.
Nobody wants to have s3x like it is a job. No one wants to feel that the time he spends in bed with his mistress love is not worth her while she is. He doesn't want to feel like he's doing her a favor by letting her sleep with him.
A man may not be able to orgasm a woman every time he has s3x, but that doesn't mean he won't try. No one wants to feel that he is unable to please his wife. The realization that you are not alone can alienate him emotionally. В - Continue reading on the next page
4. If you become very judgmental
Don't judge him for everything he does, for the conversation he has with his friends. About the way he walks and the way he talks. A partner is like a friend who accepts you with its flaws. If you don't stop everything he does, he will consider you an annoying attacker. Criticism should always be constructive and done is a way that doesn't hurt someone's feelings.
5. If he does not support his ambitions
Every person should feel supported; he should know that you have your back anyway. If he thinks he wants to quit his job and open a restaurant, be there to support his dreams and don't give him a finger. He can always get another job for things that don't work as planned.
6. When you stop paying attention to yourself
Remember when you started dating you always tried to look your best? You don't always have to look your best, but sometimes you have to try to look good for your partner. I see that women completely let go of themselves in a stable relationship. If you don't want to do it for your partner, do it yourself. Men usually leave when they see that their partner is not trying at all.
7. If you suspected him of things he didn't do
Don't hold him responsible for things he didn't do, don't expose him to heat if you suspect he's cheating on you. Be 100 percent sure they did something before you were confronted with it, like. It's not okay to blame someone for something they didn't do. В - Continue reading on the next page
8. If you expect favors for everything you do for him
Don't expect him to do something in return for you every time you do something for him, it's extremely unreasonable to behave like that. Yes, love is a relationship but some things have become selfless without any expectation. Over time, he will begin to think that you are smart and selfish.
9. If he does not treat his friends and family first
No matter how bad your relationship is, always treat a man with respect for his friends and family. Don’t you want to be treated the same way? If you impoverish a man for the people he loves, he will lose every ounce of respect he has for you.
10. If you discuss the problems of your relationship with anyone other than him
If you do not like something about your husband, discuss with him, try to understand things with him. Leave him if you see him completely incompatible, but there is no reason why you should talk to others about his weaknesses. Bite your back is an extremely immoral thing to do. It is extremely discouraging when you see your partner saying things to you behind your back.
11. If you do not respect it
Like women, men need respect, if they do not have mutual understanding and respect they will surely weigh their options. Respect is the connecting factor of any relationship, without respect there is nothing left to protect. В - Continue reading on the next page
12. If you judge him for his past
No one wants to hear about the mistakes they have made in the past. If they try, I see no reason why things they have done in the past should be held back. No man wants to talk about their past relationships and the problems they encountered with those women. If you continue to bend him to all the mistakes he has ever made, chances are he will no longer admire you and the love he has for you in his heart will suffer.
13. If you hold a grudge
This is the most dangerous thing a woman can do. One of my friends came to my house right after work, when I asked her if everything was okay, he said her husband came home late last night because of a date, and she wanted to bring him back, husband im was at home and our men are friends.
My husband found her behavior very irrational. It is childish to hold grudges, just think of the irreplaceable damage it causes to your relationship. Your partner may not notice it at first, but if you consider the last straw.
Like I said before, people never stop falling in love with a person they once loved, they just find someone and love them more than the person they loved before.
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