FRIENDSHIP : A Bond That Is Inseparable Between The Real Ones.
The best relationship that always have a huge impact on our mental health and happiness is friendship. If you have the best of companions, you will have the best of vibes and you talk about anything and everything. This is because of the mutual agreement and understanding that you share amongst yourselves. Friends bring more happiness into your life than virtually anything else. Good friends relieve stress, provide comfort and joy, and prevent loneliness and isolation. Developing close friendships can also have a powerful impact on your physical health.
I believe that when you are with the real ones, they tends to bring out the best and the beauty embedded in you. It's not a matter of you having all the friends in the world, but you having the few best of friends that can always stand by you in any situation you find yourself. Friends can be the most amazing thing you can have in your life and they can also be the most regretful thing that could ever happened to you. All you have to do is being patient and study the real ones that are truly meant to be in your life.
Friendship can be the sweetest thing you've ever tasted in your life when you're with the real ones. There are even some that pretend to be real but they are only meant to spy what's going on in your life. And the moment they achieve their goals, they flee. But you may never know what their mission was. But I'll always say, the moment someone you believed to be your friend vacate your life, let them go. If truly they're meant to be with you, they'll never leave you irrespective of situations. Never force them to stay, never ask for explanation. Just let them go!
Abu Mujahid once quote " Making a hundred of friends is not a miracle, the miracle is to make a single friend who will stand by your side when hundreds are against you ". You don't have to follow the crowd and be everyone's friend! No, that's not a victory. You will never know those that pose as friends but truly they're your greatest enemies because you aren't a mind reader or a Fae. You just have to be careful when you're choosing. You don't have to be someone's friend out of pity and endure all that you are not meant to condone. You shouldn't force yourself on anyone or allow someone to impose themselves on you. All you have to do is to be brave and know what you really want in a friend.
Real friends enables positive vibes and good mood. Friendship with people who calculate when to get in touch first, is absolutely draining. That's how some of us fail to see when our friends are drowning. Friendship is being able to interpret each other's silence, and selflessly looking out for each. It's not a contest of egos. You should always be able to know when your friend is having an inner battle. Talk, discuss and help them sort out things that are within your ability. You don't have to mock or leave your friend in problem, you just have to help them fight the problem and by doing so, they'll always remember and appreciate you forever.
Friendship is not just all about partying, playing, gisting and all sorts. It's definitely more than that. As a good friend, you should be inquisitive, a good listener and be empathetic. Always put yourself in their shoes and by doing that, you'll understand them better. And definitely the bond becomes more stronger. And that's the beauty of it. That's why some people say " friend turns sister or brother ". The love will definitely increase, that's for sure. But that is only possible for friends that are meant to be with you for ever!
© Rukayat Anuoluwapo
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