According to Wikipedia, marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally recognized union between people, called spouses, that establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws.
However, while many ladies desire to get married as soon as possible, it appears that they have unknowingly built an obstacle which deprives them from achieving this sacred vow.
Many ladies have character flaws and they expect to be accepted just the way they are without making efforts to become better persons. Do not be deceived; guys will stay with you in a relationship with a bad character but when it is time to marry they will leave you. This is an ill of the 21st century and many ladies have been caught in its web.
Feminism is the advocacy of women’s right on the ground of equality of the sexes. Feminism in itself is not a bad thing or movement, however, with the recent trend and adulteration of the system which have seen many ladies criticizing everything that has to do with marriage, faithfulness in relationship, submission of wives to their husbands which the bible commands, it has made the movement unappealing and unsupported. This has somewhat made some ladies dislike men, the institution of marriage, faithfulness of women in marriage etc. An extremist feminist may never get married.
Unbroken bonds with Ex-boyfriends
Many ladies are in this category. Their former boyfriends have moved on while others are married, but most ladies are still emotionally attached to them. This mainly comes to play when the circumstances surrounding the separation is based on health grounds especially due to incompatible genotype.
Unreasonable standards and expectations
Some ladies have standards they set standards like a man who is tall, slim, six packs, drives a Lamborghini, fair etc. These kinds of ladies may find difficulty in locating a man who meets all these criteria.
A soul tie is the spiritual component of any relationship. Soul ties can develop over time and can naturally become stronger or weaker as the two people in a relationship become more attached or disengaged.
Today, there are many ladies who have numerous sexual patterns, and for every pattern they have dated, there is a soul tie. Many in the cause of dating have even had sexual affairs demon possessed patterns. This may be an impediment for some ladies to get married.
Huge Bride Price
Although, this is not under the control of ladies, but over the years it has proven to be a major setback for ladies. There are places whose cost of bride price may be sufficient in buying a property in Wuse, Abuja. There have been legislation to curb this, but no headway has been made in getting the bottleneck out of the way.
Uncontrollable Sexual Drive
Uncontrollable sexual drive as it refers to insatiable love for sex. This is a reason why many cannot be committed to a pattern thereby making it difficult to settle and build a relationship leading to marriage.
Excessive desire to get married to the rich
Money is good and desirable but it has become an obstacle depriving ladies from settling down martially. The desire to get married to a man have overtaken many of them making them avoid guys who are still trying to make ends meet.
Content created and supplied by: Interpreter (via Opera News )
Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform See More