It is quite simple to discover a messy relationship; you can not live a damaged and damaged life. It is better to leave a relationship if it gives you more pain than comfort. It may be a difficult decision to make, but trust me; everything will be worth it in the end, not only for you but also for your partner.
There are some things a relationship can not do without. Is your relationship worth maintaining? Go through the list and convince yourself.
1. There is no acceptance in the relationship
Acceptance is the basis of lasting relationships. A good partner is someone who accepts you as you are, rather than turning you into someone he / she wants you to be. Everyone has their negative and positive qualities, but a good partner usually admits all your flaws. Your partner does not have to enjoy the things that interest you or the things that you like to do, but he should not criticize or judge you for the things you want.
For example, they do not have to watch "Vampire Diaries" because you are obsessed with the series; Likewise, you do not have to watch the whole football game with your partner if you find it boring. Respecting and accepting each other’s choices is a critical part of making a working relationship. If your partner is upset and constantly criticizes your choices in life, things as small as the way you dress, walk and talk to people, how he hates to wear a certain color, then it can be a warning that you relationship will not function.
2. Lack of empathy
A relationship is not just about staying together during good times. We all deal with different types of stress and problems every day. We have hard days at work, sometimes we go through a big health or financial problem.
A good partner who comforts you will try to solve your problems instead of irritating or dismissing you. If your partner refuses to provide support in difficult times and remains withdrawn and withdrawn, this is one of the biggest indications that your relationship will not work out in the future.
3. When you feel lonely in a relationship
It's okay to feel lonely when you are single, but if you still feel lonely when you are in a relationship, it means that something is extremely wrong. Signs to see from:
If you want to talk to your partner, they are not available. Your partner is not ready to tease you after a hard day. When you start to feel too lonely in a relationship and feel that your partner is not meeting your emotional needs. These signs indicate that you have ended the relationship; and you and your partner have no future together.
4. You are not both on the same page
You will get into trouble when you and your partner are not on the same level (synchronization). For example, your partner wants to travel and explore the world, but you desperately want to get married and let go.
If you think you have conflicts and are often not on the same page, it is time to start talking about your future. It's okay if your interests are different and your partner's future does not include you. At least you would know if you are not in the same boat.
5. One-sided relationship
Not all relationships start unilaterally, but most end that way. A successful relationship requires both partners to give and take. When the partner does more or gets more, the conflict begins.
Because a relationship requires the same effort and is brought about by both parties. To make a successful relationship, you both have to sacrifice. If one partner gives too much and the other does not meet him halfway, this is a sign that the relationship is about to collapse.
6. Lack of trust in a relationship
Trust is the most important aspect of a relationship. If you can not completely trust your partner, always check their calls and messages and always suspect that the person is cheating on you, ask yourself: "Are you doing anything with the person?
Even if you decide to stay in a relationship and try to present all your insecurities, it makes no sense if you can not get yourself to trust them.
7. When the motivation to work in the relationship is gone
If you and your partner are not ready to resolve your differences, it may be time to say goodbye. You can not put life in a relationship that has been dead for a long time. The spark is gone and you are actually afraid of the time you have to spend with your partner.
Some people are afraid to end a relationship because they feel guilty about hurting the other person's feelings, or they are afraid of becoming lonely. Just a little advice: staying lonely is better than staying in a dead relationship.
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