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OPINION: Why Love And S£x Are Inseparable In Relationships

Love and s*x are two different things. However, there are very different opinions in the society about how they connect. Some believe that the two are almost interchangeable. They assume that if s*x is present, then love is as well. This can lead down some very rough roads. Others believe that the two aren't connected at all. They believe that you can easily have one without the other without any lasting effects.

Somehow, any question that pits s*x and love against each other is always difficult answering, always accompanying the danger of losing a few good friends who may think opposite to my prevailing thoughts. But I'm writing nevertheless, in my own way:

For couples into an active relationship, both love and s*x are the two inseparable faces of the same coin- compassion. Love is mostly the pursuit of the psyches, the tastes, the likes and dislikes, the sweet things and cross banters and the connection between two souls.

Love can thrive independently on s*x, especially in the early days of the relationship; it is this feature of love that is celebrated and extolled by Indians mostly, in the name of true, immortal love. In this early phase of love, couples are most eager to take the extra risks and motivations to please each other through the utmost zeal and dedication.

S*x accompanies love, mostly (but not always) post marital phase. Whenever s*x coincides with love, it's the psychological peaks of companionship that are experienced by couples. When both occur in conjunction, it secures the couple with the deepest understanding of each other and renders the strength of invincibility to the overall relationship, which includes stakeholders such as respective families and the like.

Now, here comes the hated subject, the case when s*x can thrive independent on love. Such thirst for s*x often goes beyond the couples and extends to a third parties. Needless to say, such relationships get identified in the domain of pure lust that is treated with disdain and social ostracization. Disruption of trust, family bonding, lawsuits, settlements, ignominy and a whole lot of pain follows.

So we noted cases where each love and s*x can stand alone without each other and the case of love co-existing with s*x.

In all of this however, one-sided compulsions and lack of cooperation could strike at the roots of relationships. But the relationship that fulfils our need to get loved and get s**ually satisfied, where both love, care and s**ual passion must coexist inseparably, are the ones that will go beyond the boundaries of self-centric limits to collective good of everyone invested in the relationship, spilling their synergies to the benefit of everyone related to them.

To conclude, s*x and love have a lot to do with each other. They are inseparable when it comes to relationships.

Thanks for reading!!

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