Indeed, you are never sure about the guy you are going be married to, but there are ways in which you can mitigate this risk. You also have to learn how to differentiate the concept of romance from that of actual settling down because life is not all about chocolates and roses. By planning ahead and determining your concept of a man to marry, you are able to pick better choices not just of a boyfriend or husband, but a partner for keeps.
TO HELP YOU OUT, HERE ARE 3 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN TO SETTLE DOWN WITH:
1. HE KNOWS HOW TO MAKE YOU SMILE, AND KEEP YOU SECURE.
A lot of girls find funny guys attractive. But while it’s a big plus that he knows how to make you smile and laugh, it also pays a lot when the guy knows how to keep you secure. This means that he wouldn’t do anything that would trigger your confidence, or make you paranoid about certain issues and concerns.
This is important because when he knows how to keep you secure, it allows the both of you to build mutual trust in an easier manner. Establishing transparency and accountability in the relationship isn’t difficult, because you know how he cares for you and vice versa.
2. HE CARES ABOUT YOUR FAMILY.
When you happen to be in a relationship that’s already getting more serious, one of your medium-term goals is to know each other’s families. If he is serious about you, he would introduce you to his family and encourage them to build a relationship with you, and vice versa. This is because he is already grooming them to accept you as part of the family.
At the same time, your guy should also care about your family. He would not just take the effort in getting to know them, but is also encouraging you to further improve your relationship with them. This is because he believes that the family is the unit of society, and building a bond with them is fundamental once you two start a life together and build a family of your own.
3. HE VALUES YOUR HAPPINESS AND YOUR INDIVIDUALITY.
Perhaps this is the most difficult quality to look for in a guy to marry. This is because while most guys love their girlfriends, not all of them would think about the latter’s happiness especially when this gets in the way of settling down.
He should be willing to give and support your happiness, let you celebrate your individuality, even when these mean that he has to step back a bit. He wouldn’t be afraid to set you free because he believes that the love you share is stronger and will be the instrument to keep you two together.
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