One of the biggest decisions you will ever make in your life is deciding the woman to marry. Naturally, The deal is finding the woman you will spend the rest of your life with so you need to be very careful. Remember that marriage is a two-way thing so expecting to marry a girl with great qualities without being great yourself is not fair. Also, there is no human without flaws so don't expect a woman to be perfect. The following things are what to look out for when trying to find a woman to marry;
Make sure you are comfortable when you are around her.
If she doesn't accept you for who you are, then there is no need for spending the rest of your life with her. If you pretend to be someone else, it will be very toxic for both of you. Look out for someone who understands you and is interested in your life aspirations and passion.
She should be able to support you
when you exchange marriage vows with the woman you want to marry, part the vows is staying side by side for better for worse. Make sure she supports you even when you fail and share in your loss and frustrations with you.
You should be able to trust her
If you are always suspicious about what she is doing when you are not with her, then you don't trust her. You don't have to spend the rest of your life thinking about this. Do you trust her with your money and properties? Make sure you are always free to share your secrets with her.
Do you find her attractive in many ways?
Even though you have a specific physical appearance you want your woman to have but my dear marriage goes beyond physical attraction. Look out for also intellectual and emotional attractions too.
Does she share the same values with you?
Don't be carried away with the notion that opposite sides attract. It is welcomed to have different views about things but too much opposition can be devastating. Make sure you guys share the same view in a great number of things. If you are are a religious person, you should go with someone that share the same religious views.
Does she miss you when you are not together?
You should marry a woman who genuinely misses you when you are apart. Remember that when you get married, you become one you guys should feel emptiness or incomplete when you are apart.
Does she get along with your loved ones?
She doesn't have to like everyone but she should be able to accommodate your love ones knowing that they are part of you.
Do you picture yourself growing old with her?
What kind of life do you think you will have with her in 40 to 50 years to come. Will your love for her remain the same. feel free to fantasize what it will be like with her when you grow old.
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