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How to Have Deeper Connection with Woman

SmartAlhaji
By SmartAlhaji | self meida writer
Published 8 days ago - 11286 views

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand;

they listen with the intent to reply.”

~ Stephen Covey

How to have more conversation and deeper connection with your woman, and how to never run out of something to talk. 

Communication is your ally, you have to have open, honest lines of communication with your partner, or this relationship is destined for failure.

Conversations can get a little dull when it’s all fun and games, so I want you to balance it out with tapping into your creative and intelligent side, as well.

You do this by simply going deeper in your answers and questions with your woman. Conversations are typically very surface-layer and boring. If you want to really touch someone’s core, then you have to go deeper.

If a woman asks, “What’s your favorite movie?”

A guy would maybe state, “Star Wars, of course!”

That would be a surface-layer answer. Instead, say, “Star Wars, because it’s about the hero’s journey of a common man who rises to the call to adventure, overcomes extreme challenges, and transforms into a hero who saves the world from evil. I can relate to this story because I’m in a similar place in my life where the odds are stacked up against me, but I’m working really hard to get to where I want to be in life …” do you see how you are traveling a lot about yourself, they may seen too long but it have a great impact.


Don't jump to the next topic, instead stay and learn more about her own interest. 

If you ask her of what is her favourite sports. She said "Basket ball" 

instead of jumping to another question stay here and learn what it really mean to her. You can ask question like "what is it really in basket ball that you love it" this way she will go vulnerable and reveal a lot about herself or even her childhood dream.

When you get vulnerable naked about your emotion, you give her a chance to expose and reveal her personality.

Starting conversation with fun and mixing it will with meaningful and then later injecting deep conversation will make her never to forget you since you stay out of the crowd.

Guys can be stuck and run out of words during the first start of conversation. If you use this concept we have discussed here you're going to smashed out of boring conversation and start to working physically escalating which should actually be done in congruence with your conversations. Still, it’s important as a beginner to get the social skills down first, then to incorporate being physical into your interactions.

As you progress, you can do both at the same time, but often guys will use being physical as a crutch and not know how to talk and have real conversations, which can end the interaction.

Now, let’s get to the fun stuff.

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