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9 Ways You Can Be The Woman Of His Dreams

So you’re in a brand new relationship, and unlike those other guys in the past, this one really seems to be the one. It’s kind of amazing how every relationship just brings us a little more clarity about the kind of boyfriend we truly deserve. But if this guy is actually the man of your dreams, you might start feeling a little insecure about how you’re doing as a girlfriend. Step one is to take a deep breath. This guy is with you for a reason you’re a total catch. But, sometimes even the best relationships will make you nervous. What if it all falls apart tomorrow? What if you’re being too vulnerable? Here are a few ways to ease your mind and make sure you’re the best girlfriend you can be.

1. Trust him.

Trust is one of the keystones in any relationship. Men feel secure when you trust them because they don’t have to worry about being judged. In that case, they’ll start opening up everything to you without the need of using your interrogative skills.

2. Impress his family

Now this is important, especially if you both are in a serious relationship. If you want to know how to be a good girlfriend, this is a great move to start with. Your boyfriend may be smitten by you, but he’s got significant “baggage” that needs some impressing too. Every time you’re with his family, try to participate in the conversations and be cheerful around them. If he sees that you’re bonding well and having a great time with his family, you’re probably going to see his eyes with tears of happiness.

3. Don’t flirt with other men.

A good girlfriend is loyal and faithful; she won’t make her boyfriend feel jealous and won’t flirt around with other guys. Show him how desirable you are and trustworthy by fixing your eyes only on him.

4. Give him his space

Clingy girlfriends are a major turn-off. While constantly calling and texting him may be all right in the first stages of your relationship, it can get old pretty soon. So if you don’t ease up on demanding for his attention, he’ll want to break free and break up. Show that you trust your man enough to let him live his life. In the end, he’ll be the one who will be chasing you.

5. Respect his time with friends.

Remember that it is also important for him to have other relationships (Friends) with people. Respect his time with friends and he’ll respect you for valuing those people who are significant to him.

6. Compliment him on things other than his looks.

Looks fade, but a great personality is forever. It’s important for your boyfriend to know you find him attractive, but it’s also good for him to know you think he’s incredibly supportive, a great listener, and a pretty sharp guy as far as intelligence and humor are concerned. Varied compliments will show him you genuinely like him for everything he is.

7. Be your own person.

You’re not expected to like all of the things he likes. It’s great if the two of you share a few key interests, but the two of you got serious because he likes you for you. So, if he’s into country music, don’t try hard to become an expert at 2-step line dancing if it’s not naturally your thing. But if there’s something new you both want to try—like, a hike around parts of the Appalachian Trail‎, that’s another story.

8. Be mysterious.

Again, you want to create a sense of mystery about you and leave something to the imagination. As women, we know how much we fantasize throughout the day, and did you know that men do the same? Create mystery around yourself and this will give him something to think about and something to fantasize about. You want to be his dream girl but you also want to be in his dreams, so make sure you do this to achieve that.

9. Take interest in his interests.

One of the biggest assets of a dream girl is someone who can be one of the boys, in regards to sports. If you can spew off some football stats or who won the Super cup last year, you'll easily become so attractive to him, you'll make him forget to watch the game. Men love women who are into sports, so taking an interest in sports is one of the top attributes of a dream girl. Who knows? You might actually start to like it.

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