Steps to take for reviving dead marriage
Nothing hurts quite like a fallen marriage,and there's no loneliness as intense as living with a stranger,especially one that used to be your best friend. So how did you get here,and is there any way to get back to the love you once knew?. To that giggly,hand holding stage you swore to one another you'd never leave?.
The answer is unequivocal yes,let's take a closer look at steps to Marital healing.
Most of us hates to hear the word 'pray' you just want to do some something quick without involving God. That's bad! The truth is bitter they'd always say,but it's better to tell the truth always. Prayer is the key to a successful marriage.
So many times it's easier to pick up the phone and call your friend to discuss your dead marriage,than it is to do the right and turn to God first for His direction.
God design marriages to a encompass act spouses who mutually love one another selflessly.
2. Let go and forgive
Unforgiveness is a growing poison that steals joy and isolate you not only from the one who has wounded you but from all your relationships. In order to revive your marriage,you need to forgive your spouse and let go of whatever bad things she must have done to you.
3. Fight with everything you've got
Fight;not with your spouse but for him or her,isn't that what unconditional love is all about? isn't that the kind of love each of us longs for?A Love that sees us at our worst but chooses to remember us at our own best? A love that becomes our support when we feel like we're going to crumble?.
One that looked past our actions and reactions to our heart within a heart that usually won't reveal itself until all fear of abandonment is gone.
This kind of love is tough,it doesn't come naturally. In fact,initially our self protecting heart might need to seek reinforcement. Never be afraid to use the word 'Counseling'. Meeting together with an unbiased professional counselor will give you and your spouse a safe place to talk openly until you reach the root of the problem.
Remember the vows you spoke on your wedding day;to love,cherish and honour forsaking all other in the good and in the bad.
5. Choose hope and always be ready to begin again
It won't be easy,long-term committed love is never easy,but you'll never find the intimacy you long for if you walk away,because the problem doesn't lie entirely with your spouse.
If you have any question bothering your heart,you can ask in the comment box below,this is really important and it means a lot to me. Thanks.
Content created and supplied by: Jhulius (via Opera News )
Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform See More