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Important Things To Know As Single Ladies

  Dear single ladies,

 I do not know what you are doing at this point in time or what condition you are at the moment. But I humbly request you to spare a little out of your precious time to scan through this message.

If I may ask, are you into any relationship either serious or just casual or you feel you are just ‘catching fun’ as some of us may want us to believe. No matter the kind of relationship you keep, this message is for you. 

Relationship is key aspect of our lives as human beings. And whatever relationship we keep may go a long way in determining our progress or otherwise in life. This is the reason why we need to be very careful before committing ourselves to any relationship. As a young, beautiful and attractive lady men are dying to win her heart, you need to be very cautious and prayerful before saying ‘I do’. There are things to be taken into consideration as a young lady before going into any amorous relationship. This includes:

Education is defined as “the act or process of imparting or acquiring general knowledge, developing the powers of reasoning and judgement, and generally of preparing oneself or others intelligently for mature life.” This definition somehow captures the real essence of education because it involves imparting or acquiring knowledge, developing the powers of reasoning and judgement and generally preparing oneself and others for matured life. 

Education is not limited to the four walls of classrooms. And may not necessarily be formal, informal or semi-formal. It encompasses all aspect of human life. It transcends acquisition of certificate from any institution of leaning. And it is not limited to training received from homes. Rather it encompasses everything! Perhaps this the reason some advised us to seek education from the cradle to the tomb.

However, in addition to your paper qualification, you have to be discernible to avoid gullibility. You must be able to have the ability to scan your environment as well as the people around you especially suitors such that you would be able to distinguish a true suitor from a mere ‘eat and run’. I don’t think your paper qualification can do this for you! There are lions out there who camouflaged in sheep’s skin. Be careful don’t fall victim!


Money can do everything. That’s the believe of everybody. And truly money can buy virtually everything: foods, beautiful houses, and other luxuries. But have you asked whether money can revive a dead person. Yes it does at times but most of the time, even money is powerless! Therefore, be careful in your quest to making it in life. Learn to control love for money. All that glitters is not gold. There are among men whose source of income is diabolical. Some are ritualists, kidnappers and so on. Don’t forget that nowadays these categories of people have enough blood money to lavish around. No doubt in the fact that people like this attracts beautiful girls just because of the ill-gotten wealth. Be not a stupid fly that doesn’t know when and at what point to say bye to the dead body thereby ending up being buried along with it. 


Don’t see yourself as an island who knows everything. When you observe something strange in the behavior of your would-be suitor or boy- friend, be courageous to seek advice from those who care about you and your safety. Do not go out with anybody without notifying one or two people around you. This would help to trace you if anything happens.


Love is said to be blind. But when people fall victim in their love journey they realize that love is not blind after all. What we usually have is infatuation. In most cases, fear of ‘I don’t want to loose him’ usually prevents most ladies from painstakingly conducting a thorough background checking on their would-be spouses. They take hook, line, and sinker whatever he feeds them with about themselves thereby denying themselves the opportunity of saving themselves when the need arises. 


Everything in life requires efforts and prayers. Be prayerful. Since only God has the power of knowledge about what the future holds for every human being, do not under estimate the power of God. Seek HIS divine guidance and don’t relent in doing this. Put God at the beginning and the end of the journey. And you would surely get a favourable response.



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