Indeed this trend is a shock to many people. First and foremost, a 'good girl' is any female who is not well versed in men's shenanigans because she was not exposed to some kind of relationship between dating or boy/girl.
A bad boy is any guy who has a reputation as the man of a lady and who does not hesitate to string women with him because of how easily they 'fall' for him. Why would a healthy, 'self-preserving' girl on earth think of falling for a respectable 'bad boy?' What do these 'evil guys' do, that average guys don't know? I have an answer to this question and I hope those answers will satisfy your inquisitive.
Here are reasons good girls fall for 'bad boys':
1. These 'bad boys' have experience:
Such so-called 'bad boys' are no newbies to the dating community and have acquired the experience of treating women as well. She's almost expected to fall head-over-heels in love with the guy when they put to use all the tricks they've learned over the years, on one good kid.
2. Bad Boys Are Usually Very Sleek And Suave:
Such 'bad boys' are 'smooth operators' unlike good or easy guys. They always have the right words, the right kind of perfume, and are second to none to them and their mien.
3. These guys are perfect liars:
Trust me, a good girl might find it hard to distinguish between a lie and the truth. Therefore, when this 'bad boy' throws a few 'bombs' of his lie at her, she easily believes him. She falls for deception when he builds an illusion of perfection around himself.
4. Bad boys, know how to treat a woman right:
There is not one bad boy who is unable to manipulate the 'weak point' of a woman. These guys know that pampering and showering any lady with extra care and attention will eventually make him fall - he does just that until he wins his 'price.'
5. Bad boys, have understood the art of consistency:
A beginner in the dating world would return if a lady starts playing 'hard-to-get,' but such an error will never be made by these men. We have mastered the art of coherence. They understand she would cave in with just a little more pressure and care.
6. Bad boys are braggadocios:
On this point, you may disagree with me, but there is something very alluring about a braggart. Sometimes it may get irritating, but he knows that girls will always fall for the purposeful loud-mouthed man.
7. Bad boys are usually full of confidence:
It is one characteristic they all have in common. They are so confident of themselves that sometimes you might wonder if they take 'trust pills' or something. They want to be the life of the party, the noisemaker, and off course, the delight of the paparazzi when they step into a room.
8. Bad boys, can make a girl feel really special:
Typically a bad boy is very popular and as such, any girl who hangs with him will also gain popularity and acceptance. This 'bad boy' deliberately shows her off to everyone he knows, and this gives the so-called relationship a false sense of 'security.'
9. Bad boys are 'flexible':
These boys will go to any extreme, just to get the girl they want. If having this girl means behaving like a 'bookworm' or religious buff, he will gladly do it just to get her.
10. Bad boys, pay a lot of attention to their looks, smell and rides:
These men can't be seen dressed up dead anyhow. People are always dressed with the nines, their perfumes are always masculine, and their cars always look like they're from the carwash. All of these are good male qualities but the aim of these 'bad boys' is to always look their best. The good girls fall for them helplessly and then these boys push on to the next 'catch' to cause more havoc.
11. They’re afraid to be alone
Even a bad boyfriend is better than no boyfriend, or so the story goes. Often, these women have been told, or been given subtle messages that leave them believing they’re not attractive, and that no other man would want them. This leaves them doubting their ability to attract a good guy, so they hang on to Mr. Bad Boy hoping he’ll change.
12. They feel they don’t deserve better
If a woman doesn’t have low self-esteem when they get in this bad relationship, bad boys are good at tearing a woman’s self-esteem down. He’s somehow convinced them he’s a “catch” and that they couldn’t do better. These men have an uncanny way of keeping you under their thumb so that you stick around and put up with their mistreatment.
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