Women have long been known to enjoy the type of dangerous lads who are frequently precisely what they have been warned about. Women in general seek males who possess particular characteristics. They enjoy being pampered and looked for. They also want to be the first thought and priority in their men's minds. As a result, there is a type of man that women simply cannot abide being around. The "mama's boy" is one of them. A mama's boy is someone who constantly responds to and fulfills his mother's desires. They prioritize their mother's needs above all else. And any lady in their life regards them as second-class citizens, and hence does not appreciate it. The following are the main reasons why women dislike being around mama's boys:
1. Three is a crowd, and two is company.
A relationship is the exploration of the possibilities of love and togetherness between a man and a woman. As a result, when it's no longer just about two people and a third entity (his mother) enters the picture, complications arise. Perhaps not right on the doorstep but constantly on the horizon. It might feel suffocating at times, and the relationship suffers as a result. It's a suffocating feeling to have a third party, especially an intrusive one, pry into your affairs.
2. Her wish is his command
A mama's boy frequently rushes to fulfill his mother's bidding. This can be extremely painful and unpleasant, especially if it begins to affect your relationship. What's more irritating is your mother-in-assumption law's that her every wish will be fulfilled to the letter.
3. He reveals everything to her.
When his mother is aware of every private detail of your life together, it may be exceedingly annoying, if not downright embarrassing. He complains to her about your conflicts and tells her that you make him clean up his own mess or help with the dishes. Worse, she criticizes you for it, implying that you should continue to treat him as he is used to. Or, more accurately, what he had become accustomed to kicking his feet up and doing nothing around the house.
4. They don't want to be told what to do
No adult like being told what to do all of the time. A mama's boy will always listen to his mother when it comes to what is good and wrong, what he should and shouldn't do, and so on. Women's lives are made more difficult as a result of this. Furthermore, even if the mother accepts the lady as part of her son's life, she will begin to pick on her and direct her to do things she does not want to do or to do things in a certain way.
4. They don't like it when they are judged
No one like being judged, but in the case of a woman in a relationship with a mama's boy, she will be judged constantly. A mama's boy's mother will always tell him what kind of female is best for him, what flaws the existing girl has, why they shouldn't be together, and so on. This is solely because the mother is attempting to keep her son to herself in an indirect manner. That's why she despises the idea of her son seeing someone since it means she'll lose control over him.
6. The last word goes to his mother.
There will always be a third party engaged in a relationship with a mama's boy, and that third party's name is Mom. When dating a mama's boy, he will always bring his mother into the picture. Even if the matter has nothing to do with her, she will always feel free to speak up because her son gives her complete freedom to do and say whatever she wants. Whether you and your spouse have a simple dispute or a passionate quarrel, his mother will always have the final say on how the two of you should go in your relationship.
7. You'll be in a battle for his affection.
A mother's and son's bond is tremendously loving and powerful, yet it can also be scary at times. When you discover that you have to struggle for your guy's devotion if his mother is there, you know you've got a problem. Mama's boys enjoy being held, hugged, and kissed by their mothers, which is fine. But if you can't even give him a hug because his mother is constantly hovering over him, that's not normal, and it says a lot about their relationship. Not only will you be fighting with his mother for his attention, but also for his affection, for the rest of your life.
8. He will always support her.
Mama's boys believe that everyone loves their mother as much as they do, but this is just not true. Bumping heads with his mother will be a frequent affair with a meddling mother waiting in the wings to add her two cents to your relationship. She will believe that she has the right to instruct you how to live, cook for her kid, wash his clothing, and make him happy. All hell will break loose if you dare to stand up to her! After that, your partner will get involved, and guess what? He will never support you. Even if he believes you are correct, his devotion is to his mother, and he isn't hesitant to tell you so early in your relationship. You'll always be up against two people, and you'll always be the odd woman out in whatever circumstance.
9. No wife will stand it if her partner spends all of his time with his mother
What would a woman's situation be if her husband came home late from work and spent time with his mother? What would become of the woman's hopes and desires to spend time with her adoring husband? Wouldn't she feel bereft and powerless if her lover didn't value her enough? However, how might her spouse's blundering behavior lead to a great relationship between them?
10. No wife would appreciate it if her partner did things for her with the assistance of his mother
Do you believe a lady would appreciate it if her spouse enlists the services of his mother to assist her? Would it be unreasonable for her to expect her boyfriend to handle everything on his own in that case? Of course, because marriage is a unique relationship between a husband and wife, shouldn't there be more room for personal development between the two? What's the big deal if this doesn't sit well with the wife?
11. What would a wife think if her husband dismissed her suggestions?
Would any wife appreciate it if her partner didn't involve her or didn't care about her thoughts and opinions? How can things go well in their relationship if the husband does not involve the wife in any problem or decision-making? Worse, would it not irritate the wife if the husband only takes his mother's advice and confidence? Do you see why wives dislike mama's boy husbands when this is the case?
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